About a week ago, I got circumcision surgery on my penis (Since I didn't get it done when I was a baby.) However, recently I just got a girl friend and now I'm really nervous to have sex with her because the surgery hasn't healed yet. I just don't want it to seem like I'm afraid to have sex with her..
What should I do?
2007-11-17 14:26:24 · 12 answers · asked by rampskater71 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I'm sure if she knew that you just had that surgery she wouldn't even want to have sex with you until it fully healed.
2007-11-17 20:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
Perhaps it would be best to wait until you are properly healed first. Be honest with your new girlfriend, tell her you have recently had surgery (you don't have to tell her what) and you want to wait until you have healed . .
Tell her you really want to get to know her and you would love to spend time with her . . . Then perhaps before trying out your new penis you could try some masturbation.
I friend of mine had the same op and he chose to masturbate first in case there was any pain . . .
Gooldluck and I hope this helps . . Cheers Kellz
2007-11-17 22:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by kellz_car 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a girl myself, I would definately want to know if my boyfriend had just had surgery. If she really cares about you, she will understand. It's normal to be anxious about having sex after surgery, ESPECIALLY if you haven't completely healed. Don't let her think that it's her fault that you don't want to have sex yet. She will understand! Good luck :)
2007-11-17 22:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by mallocup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your surgery is completely healed. if she ask tell her why. I know a man that was 59 he thought getting himself circumcised it would bring is sex back to normal. His girlfriend told me he never got any better in fact that she caught him trying to wrap around his finger.
2007-11-17 22:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth,after all i don't think she would anything to happen to you(if the surgery hasn't healed yet).I'm sure she will understand.
2007-11-17 22:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by COB RULE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not healed yet. Wait the 4 weeks until you're ready for action. If she wants it let her know what is going on. I doubt she'll care one way or the other, might even be curious.
2007-11-18 22:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by tis_bernie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree with above. I had mine done and it was a couple of weeks before I could perform but when I did Man the orgasm nearly blew my head off, be patient and explain your situation to her, if she has feelings for you and is not just after sex she will understand.
2007-11-17 22:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by DAVID W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to wait until you have completely healed. Tell her you want to take things slow.
2007-11-17 23:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by k-baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the obvious and correct answer is just tell her the truth. She'll either wait or walk away. If she leaves you don't want her anyway.
2007-11-17 22:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by iraq51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it still hurts or the doctor said you cant go back at it yet, It should work.
2007-11-17 22:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by 12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋