Like, maybe exercises or something?
My boyfriend & I are both 17, and he used to be able to last pretty ok, especially when he jacks off beforehand, but lately, sex has been like, 10 minutes long. He jacked off today & it was still 10 mins, which really isn't long enough to satisfy me :( We don't use condoms, which I know makes it harder for him to last, but I really hate the feeling of them. (Yes, I AM on birth control, and yes, I know it's 99.9% effective, so no lectures please.) We talked about this today, but I just want to see if there are things I can suggest to him.
P.S. Please no jokes/smarta$$ comments. Yes, I know high school sex stereotypically sucks, but ours is great, just not long enough for me. :)
2007-11-17 13:23:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Gedaom - He uses his fingers & tongue too, I just like sex better.
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Hey.. Has anyone tried Kegel exercises? Do they work?
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_60/67_love_tip.html
2007-11-17 14:01:18 · update #1
just relax and concentrate and don't think too much about the excitement thats going on..and one of the effective thing i do is that when i know i am getting there i usually stops or slow down and then once it okay i start all over again but even then i think the longest i lasted is about 15 to 17 mins inside before i come. but 10 mins. is really above average come to think about it. it is really the before and after that sometimes is more enjoyable...... ENJOY!!
2007-11-17 13:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are person shops the place you reside im particular. they often have some high priced **** for some tablets that would artwork. tell him to no longer eat fatty meals or drink alcohol till now sexual intercourse as those will additionally reason a ailment. I hear masturbation till now intercourse would artwork. yet whilst he's under 19 then do no longer blame him too lots. Get to comprehend what his fantasies are as this would make for a pleasant and longer lasting episode. have relaxing :o)
2016-12-09 00:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Switching positions will usually delay the inevitable, or have him spend a little extra time warming you up (manually or orally). At your age it's just tougher for you to have satistying sex.
2007-11-17 13:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your lucky he lasts 10. most guys only last around 7 minutes or so on average.
maybe the problem is you guys are doing it in a position that isnt enough for you.
2007-11-17 13:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by intestinal mucous 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Usually when my wife is on top, we can make sex last much longer than any other position.
2007-11-17 14:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try different position and definitely he should increase your level of stimulation by other means; but.....
It is honestly going to come down to practice, practice, practice. Experience is the best teacher.
2007-11-17 13:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by iraq51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to read mens health online. there was some article about things you can practce to last longer.
2007-11-17 14:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by Jesse B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Switch positions, hump harder and faster, and make sure he's into it completely.
2007-11-17 13:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by thegreatone 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TELL HIM TO SATISFY YOU WITH HIS TONGUE AND FINGERS!!! SO YOU CAN GET YOURS TOO!!
2007-11-17 13:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋