hey...i'm 14 and my penis is slightly curved upward. i'm askin the girls the following because guys dont always take this stuff seriously. It also takes me a really long time to come, as in it takes me like 20 minutes or longer when I masterbate. When I was at my friend's house, he turned on a porno and started masterbatin in front of me and i didn't want to do that stuff w/another guy so i just sat there and watched the screen. I noticed however that he came really quickly in comparison to how long it usually takes me. he did it in like 5 minutes but it takes me usually like at least 20 minutes. Is this bad? does it relate to the curve in my penis? is it true that slower is worse?
2007-11-17 12:58:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You're worried because you get those great feelings four times as long as your friend does? I think he won the wrong contest.
Women often have a much slower arousal cycle than men do. Once you get intimate girlfriends, they'll be very happy that your natural schedule is so much better suited to theirs.
2007-11-17 13:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by Tom V 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds perfectly normal to me and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. It does not relate to the curve at all and believe me slower is not worse. In fact, girls will appreciate the stamina when the time comes.
2007-11-17 21:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by leelee 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all STOP hanging out with that friend. It is not normall behavior for a guy to masterbate in front of their friends. That is something that is a normal thing for people to do BUT IN PRIVATE ONLY!!!!! With that being saidl I say "don't worry about it taking too long!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" Most guys are worried about coming too fast. Trust me when I tell you this. You will come quicker when you havea partner anot just Rosie Palm and her five sisters.
2007-11-17 21:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by whatshername 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
masturbating is a whole lot different than the real thing. If you're with a real girl, It's almost impossible to go 20 minutes without cumming at least once. The good thing is if you can *** get it hard and do it again and again.
2007-11-17 21:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel really bad for you. I'm sorry that your friend subjected you to pornography and masturbated in front of you. It sounds like your friend has some serious problems. You're much too young to worry about anything like that. Sexual relations is for married people. You shouldn't masturbate. I think you should ask your parents about these kinds of questions.
2007-11-18 03:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're brave to admit this. Make sure your mom doesnt find out. I dont see anything wrong with it.
2007-11-17 21:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop it already, you're too young to be thinking of these things. Concentrate on your education!!!!
2007-11-17 21:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by conyers 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont be worried. girls like it if it takes you a long time to ***.
2007-11-17 22:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop masterbating with your friends.
2007-11-17 21:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋