This is for the friends that i have made in yahoo and others i have yet to discover..
I have a friend who just recently had their life turned up side down. I have tried to help..But, I can't seem to make head way
with the issues and problems that are going on...
His items have been stolen.
His buisness that he was running has come close to being shut down.
His Banking account~ Someone tapped into that.
He is now talking about death and destruction for the rest of his life and property.
His wife left him( just a few months ago..)
I told him to go and get help..Any kind of help to get his life back in order...
He seems to be giving up "HOPE"
What do i need to do..
Drag him to a someone who can help or Drag the help to him before its to late.
I am not the only one he has talked to. Our circle of friends have talked and tried to help>>>>>Soooooooo what to do???
2007-11-17 12:17:28 · 4 answers · asked by dokken3kiss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
but since he's talking about death you might wanna send him to a counselor or something..
We have tried that .. Do we need to bring the counselorto him.
2007-11-17 12:30:04 · update #1
We spoke to him on that as well.
Since all of this has happened we have no idea if he has spoken to his loved ones..He told he has>> But,We just don't know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-17 12:32:29 · update #2
remind him that at least he wasn't born with a 3rd arm sticking out of his chest, or that he's not handicapped for any reason--Just look at it from the outside in-it could be ALOT worse. There are other people in worse off situations that cannot be fixed and they still keep on keepin on. Life's not all that bad if you thing about it. He just needs to understand he can't change it and to just adapt to what he has now.
2007-11-17 13:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by mooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him and possible get him some help. Try to help him be happy (but you can't force emotions so just try) and don't talk about the bad things. I he brings them up change subjects but since he's talking about death you might wanna send him to a counselor or something. Good luck =)
2007-11-17 20:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by lenesterr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only be there for him. Ask him whether he would like to see a counsellor. That should be his choice. Talk about positive things.
2007-11-17 20:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if theres anything u can do... maybe if he wants to talk or somthing... tell him the best way to heal hisself is 2 get help. killing himself will make everything worse. wat about his loved ones? wat will they do without him???
2007-11-17 20:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by Italian Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋