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i dont know why or what to do. when having sex i release really really fast. i dont usually last more than 30 seconds, and even when masturbating i go too quick. please help, this is embarrasing and any tips is good. i used to masturbate very frequently and quickly, and maybe this has some affect on me? anything that will help is appreciated

2007-11-17 11:48:36 · 8 answers · asked by mxdbla 2 in Health Men's Health

8 answers

Durex Performax

yes the jacking did have an effect on you where your body is used to just getting off quickly (that was the whole purpose anyway right?). You're now goin to have to learn to control yourself, try thinking more of getting your partner to feel good rather than yourself.

2007-11-17 12:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by chig 7 · 1 0

Ok, so you learned how to get off. Great. Now you need to learn how your body responds to stimuli and learn how to adapt to that. try different ways of masturbating for practice. Take it slow, take it fast, use lube, go dry, use toys, use a vibrator. It's not so much the actual effect of these things, but it is learning your bodies reaction to them. When you learn your cycle of arousal, you are better able to control what is going on. too much stimulation too fast and of course your going to pop, you were designed to do that. But take some time to learn your body and things will greatly improve. Not only your performance in bed, but the types and duration of your own orgasm will simply blow your mind. Forget just cumming, how about sex so good you could die in that moment and not even care regardless of who you are with orgasms. Listen to your body and let it teach you. Then, learn to listen to her (or his if that's your game) body and sex will be a totally new if not spiritual experience for you both. It's not about getting off, it's about enjoying the experience.

2007-11-17 11:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by The Wonder of It all 4 · 3 0

There are very effective behavioural treatments for premature ejaculation. You need to see a counsellor who specialises in the treatment of sexual dysfunctions. Your local Relate office probably can probably put you in touch with someone, or your GP may know of one.

2007-11-17 12:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Take your time I guess, when you are about to get the feeling. Stop and wait about 10 seconds then go back in.

2007-11-17 11:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

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2016-10-24 10:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

sometimes my boyfriend thinks of like.. guys for a couple econds.. then focuses back on me...

sounds disgusting.. my bf is very homo-phobic too
but it helps him last way longer.


think of something that turns you off.


good luck.

2007-11-17 11:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Use a condom or try different positions and see if that helps.

2007-11-17 14:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2007-11-17 12:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 3

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