Like I know you'll all say yeah I feel different cause I am - but heck isn't everybody? Like I mean do you feel like you never fit in and if when you did you still had to be different. I've always been the outsider (even when I did have a close group of friends). I use to hate it but now I've come to love it! I feel so independant and free! The only bad thing maybe now is that I may be too independant!
Cause I am like this I won't go into details but I'd like you to share your stories...
2007-11-17 11:26:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I think it's sexy now!
2007-11-17 11:41:02 · update #1
I was like that too. Everyone called me a radical. Ive never felt right in society, and always felt out of place. But like you I started to enjoy it. Unlike everyone else- I dont really give a crap about what others think, and theres a lot of freedom in that.
2007-11-17 11:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My whole school career so far, I've felt that way.
I'm what you call an "experimentalist". I like to put two unlike things together and make them beautiful. An example is composing music based on the laws of physics.
I try to refrain myself from telling my peers these things. They just don't understand. I like to socialize with my physics teacher a lot since he does.
Yeah, I feel very independent as a thinker. I could be more independent if I got a job after I leave high school.
2007-11-17 20:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by Innovater Jill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah and i know how itt's like,i was hella immature and weird when i was a freshman.my friends rold me to change my atittude because it doesn't look nice for a girl.i act like a boy(but not a tomboy i mean sometimes i don't have common sense and a little clumsy).i felt depressed and that is i wanna change. for me.i have a close friends too. they are all filipinos and i am one.my friends may mke fun of meh alot but there they are nice and at the same time thwey might be hatin' on meh.i was like out of this worlde.they say i act like an immature ***** sometimes.i'm slowly gainig my confidence back and trying to trust my own instincts.(because i screw up and i used to hate and not trust myself).i told myself i wanted it to happened.i like being different in a good way.like you know not like any other girls in my school.i made wrong choices in my life.
2007-11-18 01:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysmadefunof 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I used to feel like that, especially when I got depressed, thought I was actually going insane, and then realised (maybe realised is the wrong word...my psychiatrist told me, so maybe 'found out' is more appropriate) how common it actually is.
I still sometimes feel a bit different, however. I think this is mainly due to my embarrassing habits like laughing at my own jokes and so on.
2007-11-17 19:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes there was loads of times this has happened,and yes i grew to like it,it really does not bother me,i have a group f close friends that i fit in with but thats only just happened recently
i like being a bit of both really
sometimes outsider>>>>>>>.sometimes insider<<<<<<<<<<<
-jake
2007-11-17 19:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I do. I have changed friend groups a lot because who i am changes so much. I have always been quiet and felt like i didnt fit in but i am slowly gaining more confidence.
2007-11-17 20:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by tayla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my school there's a group of "popular" kids and almost all of them are exactly the same. They all dress the same, have the same sense of humor, and always make fun of gays. I'm friends with some of them that are less like that, but I just believe in what I want to and not what they want me to.
2007-11-18 23:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by Quazimodo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i've usually felt like an outsider in my skool and even in my own family. at skool i have freinds and stuff but it just always feels like i am different in some unseen way. especially in my family, i dont fit in at all with any of them at all. they all call me the black sheep of the family. i wish i felt like you, independant and free as you say but its sort of lonely not being able to fit in. being surrounded by people who say that they love you for who you are but the fact of the matter is you dont belong because your different and you cant change it becuase you dont know what makes you different. but i've learned to just accept it, if i cant feel like i fit in i can always fake it.
2007-11-17 20:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah...at times. actually at the moment...but other times i feel like a total INSIDER. :D you just have to live with the fact that some days will be good, others will be bad, and try not to worry what others think of you and just be yourself.
2007-11-17 20:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even have a close group of friends. But oh well. Helps me find myself easier.
2007-11-17 19:34:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋