I know that there is a better "her" but she hasn't shown up yet...
2007-11-17 09:28:14 · 12 answers · asked by Da Man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there is a better her in what way? Kinder? Nicer? Sweeter? More organized?
Why not love and cherish the person she is RIGHT NOW and perhaps this mysterious better her will come out of it's shell.
2007-11-17 09:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the HELL did you marry her? If she wasn't acting herself when you guys were dating, you should have dumped her. I think that you married her in hopes that she will change, but you went in for the wrong reasons. You can try talking to her or go to a marriage counselor. You might have made a big mistake, it's up to you to fix it.
2007-11-17 09:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think there is a different person hiding inside your wife? Usually, what you see is what you get.
2007-11-17 09:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this is the real her you are living with and the 'better her' was something she put on to get you interested.
2007-11-17 09:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being herself. Maybe she wishes you were better too.
2007-11-17 10:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't marry someone hoping that they'll change someday. If you weren't happy with who she was, you should have kept looking.
2007-11-17 17:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by Little Red Hen 2.0 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all don't comdem her when she show different sides of her self.. that may be a starter.. when she feel more comfy she will show her real self.. and talk about your feelings.. and encourage her to do that as well
2007-11-17 09:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you marry someone that you thought should be better?
2007-11-17 09:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by hereisaaron 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why u get marry to soneone u do not no
2007-11-17 09:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by slimgoodie166 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cannot change people, ever. Their original personality always shines through no matter what.
2007-11-17 10:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋