How do I stop this thinking?...I am scared to spend more time with my Grandparents because I don't want to get to attached to them and when they die be really sad and depressed. It isent just them either, its other people too.
2007-11-17 09:17:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
That will be very sad for you and your grandparents. People who could give you so much could become a part of your life, but may die before you. Your experiences will affect the next generation by how you deal with issues. Think about it. If you were really worried about it, why would you marry or get together with anyone?
2007-11-17 13:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They love you and you will bring joy to their lives. Wouldn't you rather feel pain than know someone you love feels pain? We all die, and all we've got is each other to make this life worth living. I've lost many loved ones, but I wish I had spent MORE time with them, not less...
Trust me, the guilt you'll feel by avoiding your grandparents is much much much more than the sorrow you'll feel by letting them know how much you love them before they pass.
2007-11-17 09:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Quimby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard but you must get over that fear. Everyone on this Earth will have to eventually die. If your granparents were to die you will look back with regrets wishing that you would have spent more quality time with them. Hope that helped God Bless
2007-11-17 09:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by *Intellectual* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get real you are very brave, most people dont have grandparents to learn from. you are very lucky to have them good/bad whatever they are you are lucky to have them while you can. just remember people come in/go in our lives just like the 4 seasons. do you remember something about each season that is good/bad. well then your only human, its natural to feel the way you do. dont be sad or lonely. learn to feel, learn from them how to live not make there mistakes in life you may find that one of them a has a secret about life. you may learn from them. you can bet that your human very brave to feel this way.
2007-11-17 09:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Valentine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death will come to all of us. Why not spend the best time with our loved ones and if they leave us happy memories will linger.
2007-11-17 09:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You die first then you have no worries.
2007-11-17 09:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by Steven 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mental will.
"It is better to have loved and lost, then to forever think what could have become."
2007-11-17 09:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋