I've got married for 2 years. My husband loves me very much and does care me but he has not had ability to do make love anymore!!! I've asked him to go to see doctor but he didn't go and doesn;t want to take madecine. what should I do?
2007-11-17 08:55:28 · 7 answers · asked by Rabbit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your husband refuses to go get help .. you cannot make him get help.
Then .. you are left with the next decision.
You need to decide what your choices are.
One choice is to live with him .. and accept his non-ability to make love; thus - no love making for you.
Or - another choice is to leave him.
There ARE other choices - which you would have to decide for yourself.
On a piece of paper .. list al of your options .. and all of your choices. Read them. Think. Then decide.
All of these choices are personal choices that only you can make.
2007-11-17 09:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being selfish if he will not go to the doctor and see what the problem is. Can you live with this? That is what you have to decide. I could see living with it if something happened to him beyond his control but not even finding out what is wrong is pure laziness and selfishness. It could be a lot of different things that is easily fixed. Some men are embarrassed to go to the doctor for this.I don't know why. They see these things everyday and do not even bat an eye over it. Try to convince him.
2007-11-17 17:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i in same postion, and we go for months and months, we tried counselling and going to dr and now my husband has announced it the way he is, nice, after i got married, however i chose to stay with him cause i love him very much
2007-11-17 17:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may not need medication, could just be something simple.
is he on blood preasure medication? this could be the cause a change of medication would work
2007-11-17 17:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by Diamond 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he will not see a doctor, I guess you have exhausted you options. Accept it.
2007-11-17 16:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he minds letting someone else please you. He can even watch. As long as you two love each other and realize it's only physical for you then it should work.
2007-11-17 16:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
remind him of prostate cancer
2007-11-17 22:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by Bill P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋