I'm female. Yesterday, I went to a food stop and whenever I go to get food from this guy, he gives me a little portion. He tells his his other worker to give me less. My friends are shocked!!! Why didn't I open my mouth and say something? Really. What could have stopped me? Is he racist? The other woman got more than I did. I am not a small person!! I'm really hurt and angry. I want to go back there and tell him to give me more.If he doesn't I'll just tell him that he lost a customer!!!! What do you think. He gives me one forth of the plate. Why didn't I say anything. Someone calm me down!!!!!
2007-11-17 08:17:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I think I'm crazy. It's been bothering me a lot. Why can't I let go. Please help me.
2007-11-17 08:20:41 · update #1
How can I report him. He has a little cart? I just want to know why I didn't say anything. Middle Easterners scare the shittt out of me.
2007-11-17 08:26:25 · update #2
Simply stop buying from him. Just let it go!
One true definition of insanity is to do the same thing over and over again expecting a different result!
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2007-11-17 10:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Say 'excuse me but I am paying the same as everyone else - treat me that way!'
If the guy is an employee of the store - report the slime ball! Be assertive and stand up for your rights.
No man has the right to belittle or treat a woman in this manner.
2007-11-17 08:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
bring a friend, maybe a guy friend would be best, and you both order the exact same thing.
This will put them on the spot. Don't let anyone know that you know this person. You are trying to trap them.
When they screw you out of half the food, you can prove it !
He's a muslim? No wonder he's screwing you. Muslims hate women, escpecially ones that don't dress according to their stupid rules.
I would sue the pants off that monster. He's a racist pig.
2007-11-17 08:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you probably didnt say anything if you are young and not use to speaking up in moment
next time you feel an injustice, do speak up, let your feelings be known
you say whenever you go, like this has happened before, if so, dont let it happen twice, refuse to be a customer of this person, and vocally let others know why
2007-11-17 08:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer if it happens again or ask to see a manuel of how their supposed to (they have to have one by law) make the food. if their supposed to give you more talk to the manager refuses sue that *****
2007-11-17 08:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by just waat 2 help13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really pathetic. Get a grip please. And next time say something when someone is bullying you, not after the fact.
2007-11-17 08:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by cixi 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋