Just few weeks ago i shared a great news in ths forum..and i was so excited and Happy that after trying so hard i got pregnant.and everybody here wished me good luck and happiness but that happiness didnt last long and just on friday ie.yesterday i came to know about ths bad news that my baby is no more alive..Actually it was just a follow up ultrasound in which we came to know that my baby;s heartbeat stopped...and it was so shocking becoz just last week we heard the heartbeat and ths week it stopped...doc.said it is due to some chromosomes abnormality,but i dont understand why ths happend to me...we were tryng for so long,it was heartbreaking for me and my husband and for all our family members as ths was our first child..its like everythg has just stopped and still i m unable to realise that it happened..did any1 has ths situatio,that.due to chromosomes his baby didnt survive???i wish no one has to go through ths.
2007-11-17 07:54:07 · 13 answers · asked by lucky 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
believe it or not tha this is a rather common problem, alot of time its undecteched and the parents go on to have a happy healthy baby next time, sadly 1-in-4 pregnancies end in miscarriages for me that was 4-in-5 pregnancies ended in miscarriage, i lost 4babies but have 1 living son, i would talk to the doctor if i were you, its a utter shame this happened to you you poor thing, i hope your getting the support you need and that the doctors and doing all they can to help you, keep u in my thoughts and prayers.
2007-11-17 08:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by mummy me 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Great question! I am going to have to go for:- 1. The Lord of the Rings, by J R R Tolkein. This is the best written book ever, rightly sitting atop the BBC's "great reads"list. It has everything - heroism, greed, loss, love, life, death, friendship. I know it is a fantasy, but novels are about telling the story and nobody has ever done it better. The most influential novel ever released. 2. Sophie's World, by Jostein Gaarder. A complete philosophy course rendered into one splendid book, if you want to know how people think and how they learned to think one painful step at a time, this is the place. I honestly think everybody would be better off with the understanding of people and the world they inhabit contained in these pages. 3. The New Testament. Yes, I know a lot of religious types will be pushing this, but for your question they are correct. It is the most influential book ever in the western world and if you read it, it will surprise you. Most people have only a vague idea of what is in the book, usually supplied from somebody else who also hasn't actually read it! It is a dangerous and revolutionary tract, very different to the moribund churchmen we produce in Britain these days. Cheers, Steve.
2016-05-24 00:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, I'm really really sorry for ur loss.. my neighbor went through the same and it was so sad. Never lose hope. I'm sure one day u will have a wonderful baby. My poor aunt had 4 babies each of them died after being 2 months old due to chromosomes abnormality. I know it sounds bad but better to lose the baby during early pregnancy then giving birth and spending only little time with them.. good luck with ttc and I hope everythings gonna be all right with ur 2nd baby
2007-11-17 08:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by Lemi 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. I also lost my first baby due to a chromosome abnormality (4 years ago this week.) It was heart breaking, we had also been trying to conceive for some time. Fortunately I went on to have 2 beautiful, healthy babies and I hope that happens to you too! Sometimes, having been pregnant once it is easier to get pregnant again (the body now knows what it is supposed to do.)
2007-11-17 08:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by beckyf 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear this!!! All you can do is stay strong and pray!!! I will pray for you too!!
~Just to let you know, you are really fertile after something like this happens.
I hope the best for you and good luck in the future!!
2007-11-17 08:01:03 · answer #5 · answered by LizzyB- Its a BOY!! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm so sorry! I wish you and your hudssband the best of luck on having a healthy baby.
2007-11-17 07:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kayla.Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know any information about this abnormality, but I wanted to express my condolensces nonetheless. I wish you and your husband the best when you attempt to have another child. "Anything worth fighting for is worth the fight" God Bless you and don't let this stop your desires to have a family.
2007-11-17 07:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by E to the Jay 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear your sad news. You and our family are in my prayers. Take time to grieve before trying again, you deserve to grieve.
2007-11-17 07:57:59 · answer #8 · answered by tpettyaddiction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, try again. keep praying!!!!! everything happens for a reason. everything. God has a meaning for this and though it may hurt now, you'll understand later.
2007-11-17 07:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
imsorry that is a really horrible thing to go through. ive got you in my prayers, so hopefully next time will go better.
2007-11-17 07:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋