They're not weird or anything but I feel uncomfortable talking with him about what I want him to do sexually. After six years and two kids you would think I would be okay with it. How do I tell him about it without feeling awkward? How do you be upfront about your bedroom desires when it comes to the man whose opinion means the most?
2007-11-17 07:46:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just ask him if he is willing to try something different? If he says yes then have your way with him! Good luck.
2007-11-17 07:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I favour the 'jam jar' game. Get lots of strips of paper, sit down with husband and tell him to write his fantasies on these strips. You do some too. Put them all into the jam jar and then pull out one each time you want your naughties and do what it says. It not only spices up the yeehas but opens your eyes to each others secrets! A pleasant trip to you both!
2007-11-17 08:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife doesn't seem to like any fantasy I tell her about. I tried surprising her with something on Valentie's day but that ended up being a big bust. Most guys would be willing to try almost anything their wife throws at them. U have nothing to worry about.
2007-11-17 09:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could get a little box, like a jewlery box and put it by your bed and on little pieces of paper you write some of the things you want to do in the bedroom and he can write some too. Then when ever you guys go to do that you pull one out and let him read it.
2007-11-17 09:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like wine or a fruity cocktail? Sometimes having a drink or two will help you be less inhibited....I know for me unless I'm relaxed, the stuff going on in the 'bedroom' isn't nearly as great.
2007-11-17 07:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men respond to words. Every woman out there here me now and accept this fact... Men do NOT take hints. Your best bet for telling us about ANYTHING you want is simple, direct conversation.
And don't wait until we are on the toilet to have that conversation.
Good luck.
2007-11-17 07:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a Drink 1st !!! Both of You!! That will Relax the atmosphere, and then when you are in the mood or "act" present your fantasy to him in a question form like "What do you think about .......?" Or "Why don't we try........?" Have Fun!! Good Luck!!!
2007-11-17 08:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Six years and two kids and he has NEVER asked you about role/playing? Or fantasies!? I find that strange.......
As posted above, just open the door and as about fantasies....
2007-11-17 07:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by User0125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the bull by the horns and bring your fantasies to life...You will find that your husband will perform and perform well and enjoy this newfound spark in your relationship.Caution! Don't hurt him!!!
2007-11-17 08:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might try written messages. eventually you'll have to swallow your discomfort and start getting up front and direct with your partner. each time you do it will get easier and more natural maybe even fun or funny to say what you like, mean, want, wish, hope for, etc.
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2007-11-17 07:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋