My friend met a guy on the internet. The guy at first told her that he was divorced. They chat almost everyday for one year and decided to meet. They guy confessed that he was still married and was worried if he told her the truth at first he was going to loose her.He also lied that he had two boys . Only to tell her when they met that he had one biological one and fostering other two. My friend thinks he is a nice guy but she is not sure if the guy got more surprises in store. They see each other once every month and now the man wants to marry her. He is in the process divorcing . He claim to have been separated for 5 years. What about the 3 kids ? she is only 27 and this guy is 42. She has a son from her previous marriage
Please advice her
2007-11-17 07:24:34 · 16 answers · asked by baby l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when she will marry him ,he will start chatting and meeting other girl making the same story he told her ,those men get addicted to such behavior and can never change.
2007-11-17 07:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by Alexandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the woman, avoid this guy like the plague. For men out there who are recently divorced or just left a long-term relationship, don't let your ego or other factors make you simply chase after the first piece of tail that comes by. Take time to enjoy life for yourself and take a break from relationships with women. Concentrate on other things in life; try and build up your financial wealth; work on health and fitness, pursue new hobbies and interests. If you find that you must satisfy certain biolgical "needs", perhaps you should save some money to go to Nevada or other places where prostitution is legal and take care of these "needs" every now and then and get it over with. It's not worth putting up with the other crap that comes from being in a relationship with most women just so that you can get laid every once in awhile.
2007-11-17 07:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by braxton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 02:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all your friend should look for someone she can meet in real life not on the fake world of online. people can tell you anything over a computer. OK I'm single i have no kids i have a BMW 550 its all black and so hot. blah blah blah. she needs to find a good guy that is around 27-30 no older or she is just a piece of a** he will like for a little bit then find someone younger then her in 10 years. tell her to RUN.
2007-11-17 07:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by I love my DIRTBIKE! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away, run away! The guy is a liar, and you have no way of knowing what ELSE he's lying about. The divorce? The separation? Genital warts? Who knows?
Yesterday is not too soon to be done with this [expletive deleted]!!!
2007-11-17 08:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by RH Arizona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh the internet relationships. It's a clue right there if he's lying. Why would you want to continue with someone who already made up stories and lies? Don't pursue the relationship. Good luck to your friend.
2007-11-17 07:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds very much like she will marry him anyway, regardless of what anyone says.
There are plenty of people on here that got married under far worse circumstances and swore black and blue that they were in love.
Funny thing though. Their relationships all turned to cr@p.
2007-11-17 07:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pursue this one any further !!! He's a Liar !! Once he started lying, and she fell for it, it was easy for him to continue. I doubt he's even filed for divorce. and they only see each other Once a Month?! That is a Huge RED Flag!!!
Get out now !!!!!!! He's TROUBLE !!! Good Luck!!!!
2007-11-17 07:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes so desperate tell her to live in with this man sure there are more surprises in store for her.Advice-Run move on forget it
2007-11-17 07:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is scamming her. Once a liar, always a liar.
But she is not going to believe us. Be a true friend and support her no matter what.
Good luck.
2007-11-17 07:29:54 · answer #10 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋