Iff its a good thing please explain why?
Iff its a bad thing please explain why?
Thanks.
Im 20 years old & have only been in 1 seriouse relationship for 3 years now & hes the only guy i have had sex with i lost my virginity to him when i was 17 im now 20! Is that good?
2007-11-17 04:21:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I think it's great! It means that you and your guy are bonded in a very special way that you have not shared with anyone else. Being the neighborhood mattress may get you temporary "popularity" but no real respect and no love, just sex. Sex is incredibly beautiful when it's really "making love," and you are wise to restrict it to the one person you truly love. Good for you!
2007-11-17 05:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did not say whether you are male or female so I will respond as if you are either (or both). Contrary to what ANYONE else will tell you, there is absolutely no reason why you should not wait to have sex with someone you care about. In today's day and age and the proliferation of STDs, sex just for sex, especially unsafe sex is not a good idea. There is NO CURE for many such as herpes and AIDS. These are caused by viruses which mutate frequently which further complicate treatment.
There are all kinds of people who will provide you with every reason imaginable why you should. This changes nothing and only increases the chances of you catching something from your sex partner. An STD now at your young age will cause you numerous problems down the road, e.g., threaten your own health and life, cause sterility and birth defects. Your sound as though you are a very bright individual and so far, have been fortunate.
When you really do find someone whom you love and they truly love you, you will thank each other for keeping yourself chaste for each other, live a long happy life together with your children and someday look back and thank me for offering you this advice.
2007-11-17 04:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by rizipper 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Having a lot of sexual companions can deliver approximately some ailments or on the tip ill and with a low selfesteem. Being selective and smart while choosing isn´t undesirable in any respect!...Sexuality could be taken greater heavily...It´s not a pastime!...Congrats in case you could shelter some values over lust!...It´ll makes you a greater desirable individual, greater possibilities to locate a large husband and to be a large mom...See what´s incorrect with that?...
2016-09-29 10:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by enns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is good it isnt about how many men you have had sex with. and well you should sex is just something you should do when you really trust a guy. so dont feel bad anyways just think that that one guy is the only guy that gets to experience the pleasure of your body. and well that makes him feel special he will like it.
2007-11-17 04:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's a good thing
health wise
learn to control your sexual desires
and wait till the timing is right
2007-11-17 04:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by Apollo 13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its good it will come when the time is there dont worry
2007-11-17 05:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that the total isn't 10 to 15 guys.
It's bad that you gave away your virginity to someone other than your husband.
2007-11-17 04:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
good, you're not at high risk for disease
bad, you're not experienced in bed (aside from with one guy)
2007-11-18 14:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by tis_bernie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tink its a great thing you should be proud
2007-11-17 10:22:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya...im not sure if im gay or not..
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but i wish i was you...
i want sex
2007-11-17 05:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋