ok this is making me very depressed so depressed im thinkin of abortion. i had intercourse on the 19th wit my ex but he pulled out and ever since after that and a few days before that me and my bf had intercourse wit no protection and he ejactulated in me
and yes i know pre ejactulation can get you pregnant im not asking that, im asking what are the chances of the father? its worrying me too much where i wanna resort in abortion
2007-11-17 03:32:34 · 14 answers · asked by mel 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i said im THINKING about abortion d*mn im not asking for RUDE people to answer im asking for opinions and for people not to be b*tches. and i mean who do you think has a better chance of being the father
2007-11-17 03:37:45 · update #1
Having sex on mulitpe occasions without protection has a high increased chance for you to become pregnant. A womans most able to become pregnant is when she is ovulting.
Typically, a woman ovulate about 14 days after the first day of her last period. For example, if you started your period on the 1st of the month, then you would ovulate around the 15th of the month. This would be the most able chance for you to get pregnant. However, every womans ovulation time can be different, especially if she has irregular periods.
I recommend taking a pregnancy test. Wait until you have missed a period, though, because the test will be more reliable then.
A pregnancy test can cost anywhere from $5 to $20. If you cant afford a pregnancy test, you can go to youtr local health Department and get one for free. If you are still in school , go see your school's nurse and she can give you one for free, without anyone knowing about it.
I also recommend thinking about brith control. You can talk to your doctor about birth control pills, or other forms like the shot. This way, you dont have to worry about condoms.
Good luck
2007-11-17 03:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by cute_blondie_angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So ARE you pregnant? You never said!
You ought to know the A word is going to get you slammed, honey. If you are pregnant, then I'd chalk those feelings up to pregnancy hormones and possibly you seeming very young.
As far as who the dad is... it's more than likely the boyfriend. Yes, pre-ejaculate CAN get you pregnant, but intercourse with no protection and no means of TRYING to avoid a pregnancy is MUCH more likely to result in a pregnancy.
You need to REALLY consider ALL your options before resorting to an abortion. Do you realize how many nice married couples would LOVE to raise your baby in a nice loving home? Consider that, okay? And remember, abortion ISN'T the safest option. It CAN leave you unable to carry another baby. Trust me.
2007-11-17 03:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by shabree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to abort your baby because you screwed up, that is your problem. You have to live with that. Is it because you do not want to tell your boyfriend that you cheated on him? So because of that you want an abortion? People can be more understanding than we give them credit for plus your relationship could not have been that strong if you cheated on him in the first place so your best option is to fess up and tell both men you are not sure who the father is. Have the baby, than get a DNA test. Do not terminate the pregnancy because you can't own up to your own mistake. Good Luck.
There are women on this site who have been trying to conceive for YEARS and can't. I think it is RUDE to come onto a Pregnancy site with women who want real help and casually throw out the A word. How could you ask a question about abortion and not expect rude answers especially on a board full of women carring babies. I am sorry if it sounds mean or offends your sensibilities but maybe you should remember where you are at next time you decide to post a question that includes the word abortion.
2007-11-17 03:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by CourtneyRose 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Do you know if you are even pregnant? It honestly could be either guys baby if you are pregnant and the only way to tell is a DNA test after the baby is born. Abortion is not meant for people to kill a baby because they don't want the father to be the father. You chose to sleep with your ex and you should've known that it can result in pregnancy.
2007-11-17 03:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by qυєєи of му cαsтlє ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people can feel free to have the opinion that they want. They should be able to express there opinion, and those who listen (which should be lots of people) should have an open mind, and maybe change there opinion. Some opinions may not turn into anything, but it doesnt mean there worthless. Even if nobody treasures your opinion, you should. Its what makes you who you are.
2016-05-23 23:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only 100% way to tell is a DNA test. This is done safely after the baby is born! My sister had sex with 3 ppl in 2 days... she got pregnant and the 2nd man was the father of her twins! So anything is possible! Be honest with your boyfriend. The last thing you want to do is have your baby thinking one man is their father... and it really be someone else! Best of luck to you and weigh all your options carefully!
2007-11-17 03:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jessicka S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an opinion site so you'll just have to deal with whatever answers you get. You should know that preejaculation can make you pregnant. And then you had sex again with another guy and let him go all the way! What is wrong with you? If you are pregnant it's your own doing! You should've used a condom or not have sex at all if all you're thinking about is killing a poor, innocent baby. They rip the baby apart.
I guess I'm one of those rude people you're talking about. Oh well. You should have thought before you did.
2007-11-17 04:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by Malia 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Chances are very good that the father could be either one.
Think long and hard before making such an important and permanent decision.
You don't even know if you are pregnant yet. If you find out that you are, take your time making your decision. Wait for the shock to wear off, and make your decision with a cool, level head.
2007-11-17 03:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, it is most likely your boyfriend, but to be sure you should have a paternity test done when the baby is born. We all know that sex is fun, but being irresponsible with it is not the baby's fault. You shouldn't have an abortion because you feel ashamed of yourself. Consider adoption or maybe taking responsibility of your actions.
2007-11-17 03:40:49 · answer #9 · answered by Alyssa 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The second guy has more chance of being the father.
Do not have an abortion,the baby shouldn't suffer for your stupid mistakes.
Please use protection next time!!!!
2007-11-17 03:50:14 · answer #10 · answered by Amber - baby #2 on the way! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋