This sounds like a medical problem. If he had enough sex interest to masturbate, he'd be making love to you instead, so I don't think that's it. It sounds like the relationship isn't the problem if you are always together, so I doubt he's seeing someone else.
He may have diabetes, very high blood pressure, or ultra low testosterone. It's also possible that he's gay, but unless he says he is, I'd check out the medical side of it first. Talk to his doctor and tell him/her exactly what you've told us.
Good luck!
2007-11-17 03:06:20
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answered by Maple 7
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Yes something is wrong it could be he is addicted to masturbation he could do that anywhere in the bathroom in the shower probably only takes a few min and you would never know unless you are showering with him.
Ask him what the problem is you deserve a answer and the only way you are going to get one is to ask for it.
Different couples have different times they want to have sex some might be every day some might be once a week once a month 5 times a day everybody is different. But once in 9 months for a newly wed is not normal.
2007-11-17 01:47:41
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answered by mdjgirl7 4
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Well, the question is not if he masterbates or not. All men do it. and it does not affect sex life at all. Even people ask their gf to masterbate for them.
Question for you to find out what went wrong between you too and whats going on in his mind. May be his experience was not what he expected. May be it was the process itself. if you find yourself not be able to handle him or this situation, you should ask a doctor, and ask his help/suggestions. You can visit the doctor later together, but you should be bold enough. It also depends on the culture you grew, may be you think its not good for a newly wed girl to ask such questions. Then take him to doctor bluffing that you have some problem and need to see doctor and want him to come with you to see the doctor. You have to handle it yourself now, and its only you two who can solve this problem.
2007-11-17 05:24:37
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answered by Believer 2
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it would desire to experience mundane, yet in my view it feels like your marriage is doing fairly good! You the two artwork finished time, have a three 365 days previous, a step toddler on weekends, a date nighttime, and intercourse once or twice a week. you adore one yet another, and know he would not opt for to bypass away. i know that's not the respond on your question, yet I merely had to furnish you slightly encouragement. artwork, toddlers, financial stresses do take their toll on a marriage. You the two have a number of of calls for and it seems such as you're doing the desirable you could. My husband additionally works lots, especially circumstances all day and into the nighttime, looking on what cut-off dates he has. we've not got dinner till 7, 8 o'clock and after that he's so mentally exhausted that he needs time to zone out. i've got chanced on the only element that works is addressing your project and together finding out to MAKE time. in line with probability he can rearrange his visitation along with his daughter so as which you've a weekend at the same time? you're able to desire to get a babysitter on your 3 365 days previous and merely examine right into a inn and have a mini-getaway. Or he might desire to spend say, Saturday morning along with his 10 365 days previous and something of the day/nighttime/Sunday morning with you? in line with probability you do not experience like the sexy independant lady he dated yet you additionally are committed and annoying working and that i assure he appreciates this. not all women people might desire to deal with a busy existence. as quickly as he builds up a while at his business enterprise he gets holiday time, and you will destroy out. yet merely know you at the instant are not on my own, many people experience they are in a rut, yet as long as your marriage is shelter in different procedures, you have a good beginning place that many people have not got (merely go searching on M&D)!
2016-09-29 10:07:39
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answered by ? 4
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You're not getting what you deserve. Even if you're not the one to initiate intimacy, it should occur to him once in a while.
You really need to talk to him to find out what's going on. Maybe he thinks you don't want it for some reason, maybe he has a medical condition that he's too shy to talk about (yes even to his wife).
Physical affection has always been a happy and important part of my relationships. I hope things improve for you soon.
2007-11-17 08:48:16
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answered by Tom V 6
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WHAT !!!!!!????? No sex since wedding night. Let me guess you were a virgin saving it for the right man to come along (sorry I had to say it).
Look something is definately wrong, get counseling fast. You are way below quota, by my estimates you should have had sex at least 270 times by now.
2007-11-17 01:37:47
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answered by G B 6
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He may have SERIOUS sexual hang ups. Some people do. You should talk to him honestly about it, the 3 big causes of divorce are how money is spent, who does the housework and how often to have sex.
2007-11-17 01:20:08
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answered by Anonymous
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Something is definitely wrong with him. Is he gay? He may masturbate when he is in the bathroom or when you are sleeping, but it is really strange that he would not have sex with you at all. Maybe you should just ask him what is wrong and suggest counseling.
2007-11-17 02:40:28
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answered by William 5
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You REALLY need to get him to a doctor.
Unless he is gay. Or you waited until your wedding day to have sex and he didn't like the goods he bought sight unseen.
2007-11-17 03:37:42
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answered by nandina221 4
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He is gay, or a head case or is masturbating instead of having sex with you.....seek help immediately. This is another reason to indulge in premarital sex...to see is all systems work and if you two are compatible. Good Luck
2007-11-17 05:06:44
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answered by Anonymous
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