For women to reproduce an orgasm is not essential so why do so many women complain about the lack of orgasms? Not in my experience of course!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But a "freind" of mine had this problem.
Men are fighting nature all the way in the hope of pleasuring his lady!!!!!! Tough job!!!!
Opinions please..
2007-11-16 22:30:46 · 25 answers · asked by paul p 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Okay most women only have 2 kids, according to your theory, women should only have to orgasms in their whole life? Sex isn't all about procreation, it's about pleasure. You sound like a very lazy lover....
2007-11-20 18:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by **Llola** 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well not every man has the problem you state. It is true that many men do come within 3 minutes and some do not last that long. There are those men can last at least 15-30 minutes and share in a equally great and mutual pleasure with their partner. It takes learning control of your release. If the only function you think you have is to impregnate, then i do feel sorry for you and your partner as you are missing out on a major part of a relationship and a successful one. Your lady deserves the same pleasure and enjoyment from the intercourse as you do. personally i can go on for hours without a release. If you come too quickly you may want to seek further medical attention that can guide you and give you some help to improve that control whether by medication or otherwise. Remember it is a relationship, not about man only,or should you be so selfish.
randy
2007-11-16 22:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by PSW s 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do realise that it is not appropriate or reasonable to expect a man to become and stay hard for a long time without squirting it out. So I wouldn't complain if a guy came. But if sex is about more than reproduction, which is is for most people, being about love and mutual pleasure etc, then it is important for both partners to help each other get their desires and if this includes guy giving girl an orgasm some way then what's wrong with that?
2007-11-16 23:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If baby is the only reason to have orgasm, then maybe your wife don't need to have sex with you after the baby comes huh! Is that what she's doing right now? Helloooo??Did I wake you up??
Opinion--poor wife. Lazy, ignorant husband! (Sorry for the insult but that's how you portray right now)I feel like smacking you on the head. Seriously! She must think it sucks to be having sex with you. She must feel sex to be chore-like.That's why maybe she's not interested in having sex with you.She must be fantasizing a man who could bring her to orgasm. She must have had an affair or may be waiting for the right guy to bring her to ecstasy.
Advice--If you want your wife to have sex with you(and not some other man)you need to learn modern sex (like many adult men) not caveman sex(what you are doing right now---3 minutes of bing bang boom). Read a good adult book about foreplay.Watch an adult DVD showing a man orally pleasing a woman(not the other way around).Satisfy your wife first (orally, manually) before you stimulate yourself. Use a vibrator/dildo alongside your tongue or hand. This way, sex will last until your wife reaches orgasm. Sex must be pleasurable to you both. Not just for you. If you're not interested in your wife's pleasure, you shouldn't be married at all. All you need is a whore, sexdoll or a dumb woman who would be happy with your current situation.
You can find dildos, vibes and books and dvds at http://www.SextureS.com
Man, you (and other men that agree with you) need to learn....badly!
PS: I read your other problems to understand your situation more.
2007-11-22 22:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A few things that turn men off: 1. Harping about politics. (If I hear another woman talk about women's rights, or animal rights I am going to vomit. And if I hear that classic tangent about how women have periods and babies, I will order a very expensive dinner, eat, and leave her there to pick up the check.) 2. expecting us to meet your parents. (Every woman has at least one psychotic parent.) 3. Talking about your sexual history, especially on the first date (or worse yet, comparing your date to past lovers.) 4. Expecting me to pay for EVERYTHING. (I'm broke, the economy is a terrible state, and somehow I'm expected to buy her things.) 5. Bad hygiene. If the floor of your car or house is covered in garbage, or has animal excrement, I will leave immediately. (Yes. some women really are that sloppy.) 6. Gossip is a very big red flag. Things I would like to see more of on a date: 1. manners: remembering to say "thanks for dinner" will earn you a lot of points. (Please don't get into a phone conversation with one of your friends while we're at the table of a restaurant [unless it's important], it's incredibly rude.) 2. Give feedback: Are you interested or not? Do you want to see me again, or not? (Are you interested in a relationship, or are you just using me for a free dinner? That's what men are wondering on every date.)
2016-05-23 23:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, it is preferable for a woman to have an orgasm to increase her chance of conception as when a woman orgasms the neck of her cervix dips rhythmically into the pool of semen at the neck of her vagina.
Secondly, sex is also about expressing love and giving your partner pleasure and a 3 minute session is pretty poor horizontal performance.
Perhaps you should slow down and take more time and train yourself to 'hold off' longer with stop-start masturbation.
2007-11-24 07:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the reason women complain is because even though sex is mainly for producing babies...it should be somewhat enjoyable too. Even though the woman doesn't HAVE to have an orgasm to get pregnant ( although it does actually help sometimes ), it's still a let down to get all worked up, have sex..and not get any pleasure out of it.
2007-11-16 23:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
I have never before heard an excuse like this for not being able to last longer than 3 minutes. Many men last much longer than that and in fact give their partners orgasms. If as you say it is "by design" for men to orgasm quickly, how do you explain the fact that women are able to have orgasms at all? Find a better excuse for your "friends" lack of sexual ability and expertise.
2007-11-17 02:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by William 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Well then why the hell did NATURE make WOMEN capable of having orgasms then? Obviously that must mean sex amongst humans means something MORE than JUST recreation.
We're complaining because natural pleasure for us isn't being given.
2007-11-17 02:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by Technopathic☠ 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
yes we do realise that we don't need to climax to have babies, but some men actually last over an hour, experience! but sex is not purely for having babies, it should be part of a loving relationship where both parties feel fulfilled sexually by climaxing, most women need manual stimulation though to achieve this, for a man to just think of his own needs is quite selfish, imagine if you were touched until you were on the brink then left cold.....
2007-11-18 00:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋