everytime i do something i will always think of my x bf who tells me i cant have another bf in two years or he will post my nude vids..i have worries that he already did post..n it gets to my dad who will bash me up..i cant stop this toughts n two years is way too long..its like feeling being chained up..what shud i do..pls help..
2007-11-16 18:23:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hi there. This is a very ugly situation and also very cruel on your ex-boyfriends behalf. He is obviously a very nasty vindictive person. I dont know where you live but i am in Australia and i am not certain if the same or similar laws apply where you are. What i can tell you is that if he took the photos without your knowledge, you should report it to the police and have him charged with blackmail or extortion which you are quiet entitled to. He is taking advantage of having power over you and you need to stop it immediately as this is causing you much distress and inter fearing with your day to day life. Also you should express your fear of your father to the police. At the very least you could have your ex-boyfriend charged with harassment and threatening behaviour. my advice is to move quickly on this matter. good luck
2007-11-16 23:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by natasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad first and tell him in a weak moment what you did and how you feel. If he is the type to bash (HIT) as you put it then don't tell him.
I can not use the words here I would like to but, F that guy Nobody has the right to control an other if you let him he will not stop. File a law suit on him. Take control of your life So what if he did post them be proud of your self and don't ever let any one eles do it again.
Live Long Live Free
2007-11-17 03:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by The answer guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to see you in torment. The more frightened you are of his threat, the more he'll do it.
This guy is a sicko. You can report this to the authorities if you want. l know it's difficult but it would also help if you can tell it to your dad ( or any elder).
Let this be a lesson not to trust guys that easily. Always keep your clothes on. A lot have been victimised by blackmail concerning nude photos. Not because everyone's doing it should be enough reason to do it too.
Good luck.
2007-11-17 03:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, he can't be trusted. What makes you think he'll stop the demands after two years?
Are you underage? Have him arrested! Not underage? It's time to move out so your abusive father can't "bash" you.
Guys can and will be creeps. Choose more wisely.
2007-11-17 02:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by Huba 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is good for you to report this to police if he really do this to you. Afterwhich you need to explain to your dad on what is the problem and hope that your dad can understand the situation that you are in.
2007-11-17 03:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋