This is a question about sex. Feel free to answer it if you need to. I'm usually a total submissive person in bed, I let my partner take total control of me, and my ex was very good at it. Now I'm dating a submissive man. I need to know what I can do to make things more fun and comfortable for him in bed.
2007-11-16 16:22:43 · 5 answers · asked by Melissa M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dress all sexy, then depending on where your man is go grab his hand and demand he get up and follow you in to the bedroom. once in there push him on the bed and start taking his clothes off, then jump on top of him and kiss him moving down toward his "member". maybe even get something to tie him to the bed or even get some porn this may help you come out more and even learn a few thing too. you just need to show him who's boss.
2007-11-16 17:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by (¯`*•.(¯`*•.♥LeesaM♥.•*´¯).•*´¯) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to start with you two are just going to have to take turns being dominant. You know what you like in bed, you know what you like him to do to you. He'll probably like the same thing as you.
Try putting on a sexy outfit. Let him see you in it, ask if he likes it, then grab him by the shirt, pull him into you, kiss him hard, tell him you want sex and command him to get his clothes off and get on the bed. Then do those things to him that you like him to do to you or just command him to do the things that you like.
You may feel funny about it the first time, afraid that he won't like it or perhaps even a little silly. Just remember that you would like it if he did it to you so you can be sure he will like it when you do it to him.
There's no rules about what's right or wrong with sex, as long as you both like it, just have fun with it.
2007-11-16 16:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by kirk1500 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he likes or might like. Do things to him that you'd like done to/with you. Study a little and learn about stuff....there's a lot of interesting and exciting information around - even for submissives. look here
http://www.google.com/search?q=relationships&sourceid=navclient-ff&ie=UTF-8&rls=GGGL,GGGL:2006-40,GGGL:en
2007-11-16 17:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im the same way i like to let my husband take control but he started complaining about it so i recently started taking control and i like it just dress sexy for him and start kissing on him playing around with him if you know what i mean and when you get through with foreplay then crawl on top he will like it you taking control and finishing what you started lol try it
2007-11-16 16:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by lil momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loosing his collar!!
2007-11-17 11:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋