I have 1 more if you dont mind about my mother. should i talk how i feel to her in a note or in person?

Question

I know sound silly but I talk to my mother a few times already but i still feel like not everything is out in the open. I feel like it should be she said she good and no for me to worry so why do I worry. Should I tell her how I feel in a note to her or talk to her again in person. Im afraid to get eyerolls from her or shrugs. Or should I just not say anything and just deal with how sad I feel by myself.

I talking to her about that I feel sad and dont feel like shes interesting in my life and what is going on. Im always there for her but I dont feel like its the same back.

Answer 1

Go to a crafts store , buy her a box , { You ... put the finishing touches on it ... -paint - varnish - wood burner -draw a design. } but most of all put a picture of her in it when she was little , give it to her ... things will change .

Answer 2

Write her a letter if you think you won't be able to communicate with her in person.
Try not to give her 'you' messages', that means, don't say,
"You don't spend time with me, You don't seem to want to talk to me, I wish you would want to be with me and be interested in my life. "
Nope nope nope

Try, "I ' messages.

I would like to go out to dinner with just you maybe once a week? I would like to talk to you for a few mins when I get home from school.
I wish you and me could do something together just the two fo us.

In other words, positive suggestions that she can actually do, start small. Not negative 'you don't', or you should.
I'm assuming that she really loves you, but is coming across as distracted, uninterested, or is overwhelmed with other things/worries.

Answer 3

What are you talking to her about?

Ahh. Well, I think you should make it clear to her just how you feel. If you haven't just said it bluntly, maybe you should. If you have said it bluntly, then I would tell her that it is really hurting your feelings that she isn't being there for you. If she just won't come around, try talking to your school counselor for support. She may not only give you some support but she may have some better ideas for you. Good luck! ((hug))
PS some people listen better to something written down and others to something said. i would try both approaches

Answer 4

I disagree... I think you have to throw out the idea of telling her how you do feel in a note. Talk with her in person, and don't look at the floor, but at your mother eyes. After that, you can post notes all over your house, but after you've talked with her in person.

We can never presuppose that our interlocutor will reject our position or ideas. Think always positively. I’m sure your mother will welcome any word from your lips, more than from a frozen note.

Answer 5

Send her a letter or e-mail and ask her if she will discuss it with you after she reads it. Or tell her she can discuss with you if she wants to.

Answer 6

maybe try both. meaning write down what you want to say and read it to her. but do tell her what you need to say.. and let her talk too and listen