I Dress "emo" And People Are Scared Of Me What Should I Do?

Question

I dont like it when ppl walk bye me with that "look" on there face like I dont Like You and there scared of me and no guy would like me what should i do but i dont want to change myself..........When i say "emo" i mean dress dark and stuff cause i hate lableing but ppl go by "emo"

Thank You But I Like The Way I Look And I Would Just Change A little bit cause i hate it when ppl ask are you "emo" and i dont know what to say!!! :(

Answer 1

I know what you mean. It gets really annoying, and I can't stand people who give that "look".
Especially other girls... >.< I won't get started on that though, lol.
First of all, I dress dark too, and there's nothing wrong with that. As long as it's what you like. Don't think you have to dress like all the colors of the rainbow for everyone to like you, (like what other girls try to push on you. "Wear more color!" Hmph.)
You can still dress dark and be a cool person.
But, it also has to do with the impression you give others. People easily get the wrong impression of you if you're not talkative, don't smile, or act un-friendly. I've learned that the hard way. People used to think "I hated the world", because I didn't smile much, and was a bit shy. It's not that I actually *did* hate the world or anything, but people just saw it that way. So, maybe to avoid people from being afraid of you or not liking you, try smiling for no reason every now and then. I don't mean one of those random smiles like you're crazy or something...Lol. Just a simple smile, to show that you could be a likeable person. :)
Maybe even be more talkative towards others and towards the people you already know. You'll definitely gain a little self esteem when you try that. It really helped for me.
And, having self esteem really helps with the way you portray yourself to others.
Trust me, just try these things I suggested and you'll notice a difference. Maybe not right away, because it could take a little time.
But, yes, you'll still get those people who will give you the "looks". I've just learned to ignore them when they do that, and don't let it bother you. When they see that it bothers you, they'll just keep on doing it. Some people are just sick, aren't they?

Always love yourself for who you are. Don't let what others do or say get you down.
:)

I hope I've helped out a little, and good luck with everything!!!

*Edit*
Well, if people ask are you "emo", just say back to them basically what you mentioned, "I don't go by labeling people, so don't bother with asking if I'm 'emo'... I'm just myself."
Maybe something like that?
You'll be okay. :)

Answer 2

i noe u don't want to change but maybe u could a little wear lighter colors act different get a small make over try to flirt a little with the guy u like theese r just options:) just to tell u i'm one of those ppl who are scared of emo the only reason is the cutting stuff

Answer 3

well im emo and if you dont like getting the "look" then i would advise to leave us "alone" just stop dressing like that .

Answer 4

first off, try smiling. it is the universal sign of being friendly. even if they don't smile back, it shows you are trying to be approachable.

if you are trying to mix up your clothing, try adding a pop of color to your daily wear, or not wearing as dark of make-up perhaps.