My husband is an athlete at a university...let's just say he is very good at his game. Well, we married young and will be having a baby next month. Anyways, for the longest time this girl wont leave him alone, she would lie and tell people they have hooked up (when we are always together...not to mention she is kind of beat up looking) she would get his number from his teammates and text him non stop, she writes him e-mails all the time, just wont give up...she was pretty much, obsessive stalkers and started getting wierd to me, like copying my clothes, trying to look at my jeans brands and size, boots, ect. It's so wierd. She eventually transferred and told people my husband said dhe would be w/ her if she stayed (we are havinga baby!). Then the other day, my husband showed me another message she wrote him...she is crazy...what do you do to get rid of freaks like this, I'm scared she would like kill me or something. Let me know, and we changed his number she got it again from teamate
2007-11-16 12:48:08 · 8 answers · asked by elle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would file a stalking report. There is no telling what lengths she would go to - sounds like she has done so much already. Go to the police and talk to them. Make sure to have it documented and get a restraining order. Be careful.
2007-11-16 12:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do with a stalker is to cut off all contact, while protecting yourself, but getting a restraining order or calling the cops just gives them the attention they're craving. Avoid her completely, change your number, change your schedule, change the way you drive to work, don't look at her, don't think about her, don't acknowledge her in any way. Get an alarm system for your home and vehicles and carry pepper spray if it'll make you feel better.
2007-11-16 20:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't know what state you live in but many now have 'stalking laws' that can be enforced; check into that. Have him block her number from his email and cell phone; even if she gets it from someone else she won't be able to communicate with your husband. Yeah - alot of crazies out there; you need to take whatever precautions available to you to protect yourself and your family. Report her to the police so they have something on record.
2007-11-17 03:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to file a police report and pursue a restraining order.
Good luck.
2007-11-16 20:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband need to put this women in her place, and let her know he is happily marry, if she continue your need to let the police know she is harrassing your with e-mails and phone calls. She a serious fatal attraction.
2007-11-16 20:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You get a restraining order.
Period.
If she violates it she goes to jail.
2007-11-16 20:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order. Some people are so stupid.
2007-11-16 20:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by cammy3030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont.
2007-11-16 20:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by csiders30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋