I am always positive, I have always seen good in the bad, a lesson to be learned. I have watched in my life things unfold out of the bad that were good. BUT I'm just not sure how long I can hang on. It seems like I'm being pounded with bad things right this moment.
I'm a single mom, I work(ed) hard to keep our family above water, I am on the edge of losing everything on a daily basis, I live day to day.
I lost my love 5 months ago, my support system. I lost my job 2 days ago, and today I lost my car. At any given point my landlord can evict me. I'm behind in everything. I have $30 to my name an no money coming in for a while.
I know, I know...I have internet, but it's my sanity...I could do without but I would just feel secluded and isolated. I have no one, just me and my kids.
What do you make of this?
How can I keep positive, that just doesn't seem to be working anymore.
2007-11-16 12:08:04 · 7 answers · asked by Kitten916 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are really having a horrible time. Do you have family or friends who could help in a pinch while you get your life together? This is really rough and I think you need help. Can you get some aid until things settle down? There must be an information and referral service in your area that could talk to you about possible resources that you might be able to use. When you get this resolved, you really need to talk with someone. Usually the county will provide mental health services on a sliding scale. Groups can also help. There are a lot of people struggling and you might get ideas and support from them. Good luck. I'll be thinking of you.
2007-11-17 14:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...i'm sure you've heard this from someone before but maybe God is just testing you. He does that sometimes ya know...he's hard on the ones who least deserve it just to see if they truly have faith. I know it seems hard for you now but just pray. It will work out for you. (Hopefully you're not an atheist or something because I'm sure all of this is just a bunch of crap to you if you are.)
2007-11-16 20:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by Høмε Sкiℓℓεt ßisкεt ツ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I know but thats life u gotta expect it and remember that when it rains it pours u just gotta be strong and ride it out eventually it will get better trust it will
2007-11-16 20:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by flashyleo25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a Taoist.
Or try to avoid thinking about how bad your life is; think only of how to improve it.
2007-11-16 20:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by Xyzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apply for unemployment right away and take any job for now even if its isnt greeeat.. im sorry...i will pray...think of going to parents if you have too... you pray too..
2007-11-16 20:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serotonin is the best way to force it.
2007-11-16 20:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
always believe that Jesus is with you. he is
2007-11-16 20:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by James J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋