My little sister is 15 and the other day I walked in on her and her "boyfriend" making out, topless. My parents are Spanish-Catholic and don't believe in sex before marriage and won't even bring up the topic until she's 16 probably. I don't think they can wait that long. I told them this but they told me it wasn't my buisness. I'm worried about my sister, and I don't think she knows that she's getting into. Am I overstepping my boundries if I give her "the talk" even against my parents wishes. I remember losing my virginity, and I want her experience to be better than mine was.
2007-11-16 11:38:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, she needs to know before it's too late!
2007-11-16 12:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by waia2000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are overstepping your boundaries because you do not have direct responsibility for the impact your advice may have...your parents do. But since this is your sister, I suppose you are permitted some leeway, just make sure you're factually accurate and instructive beyond what you think is required. In other words, don't teach the outcome you want to occur, but the pros, cons, and mechanics of what you know to be true. Then do your parents the courtesy of informing them what you've done.
2007-11-16 11:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hahaha i don't know approximately any penis fashions or something. they did not do something like that for us. and that they in no way confirmed us ladies something approximately the thank you to place condoms on. and that they truthfully did not coach us any porn. evaluate your self fortunate in the event that they do. No, i'm kidding. they at the instant are not going to teach you a video of people "doing it". so a procedures as i will remember, they consistently separated us from the lads up till extreme college i think of, or maybe then, they did not do lots intercourse ed. i think of they stated it in biology, notwithstanding it wasn't very exciting. that's distinctive at distinctive colleges. do not difficulty, it won't be too awkward or something. They probably will merely communicate approximately STDs and abstinance. do not assume to learn lots stuff with reference to the unquestionably act of intercourse, however.
2016-09-29 09:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by kovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer to be there for her if she needs to speak to someone. Lucky to have you a sister that she can come to. Mine would have told my parents. Unfortunately teenagers do not listen. It is not your business now, but god forbid she gets pregnant she is going to her sister for support not her parent.
2007-11-16 12:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by Tricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to Planned Parenthood. They can better explain things.
2007-11-16 11:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't have a boyfriend 15 is still little what if she is pregnant!
2007-11-16 11:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Nothing 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ugh sweetie i think its best to talk to her cuz if id of found mah sister topless id say "GEEEIT BOI"!!!
2007-11-16 11:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by PunnkPrincess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um tell her she needs protection
2007-11-16 11:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋