2007-11-16 10:15:23 · 49 answers · asked by lovesesther25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I-GET-EVEN!
2007-11-16 10:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's really hard to please everybody at the same time. We always have our individual differences. Sometimes it happen when they really did not like your ways, or they did not get anything from you.........materials gains or some favors they could get from you.
They may be the kind of people who are called the opportunists... and you are not.... ignore them after all you have yourself , ,, We are our best friend you know.We could trust ourselves with our personal secrets and needs. We don't laugh at ourselves for our failure... We just keep on trying until we succeeded in our indeavors. Atleast we know how to appreciate ourselves for how we manage to survive and finally succeed in the trials that come our way....
Ignore that part that showed, they aren't so nice with you... Learn what exactly made them click with each other...
Learn their weakest points, they have .....
Go on your way.... Read a pocket book, a good one and you'll find out you forgot them...
Do your job, find someone who listens after all we really do not need a lot of people , we need just a few close one...
You can pretend and smile at ehm when they pretended to. then go your way.
, When you feel people are so indefferent, treat yourself especially when you have time, find a place to pomper yourself. Go to the mall, a coffee shop, some shopping spree
a nice sumptuous meal. Visit a beauty shop....
There are people out there , somewhere whose more real than you expected.....
2007-11-16 10:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people aren't being nice to you try to ignore it. If it gets out of hand, then confront them and talk to them about the way you have been treated. Good Luck!
2007-11-16 10:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what I do? When my friends aren't being nice to me or teasing me I just ignore them or give them the "rude" face and still ignore them. When other people are being mean or not nice to me at all I give them the "mean" face, or sometimes I ignore them, or I just stare at them thinking that they're stupid and they have no niceness. That's what I do or sometimes do.
2007-11-16 10:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ɽ○ⱥⱭ ₮o ṄṍẃḧḔⱤễ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what I would do is ignore them because their miserable but if it is a continous thing from the same person than I would speak up and let them know. If you don't speak up and tell the person they may never know and continue to be mean for no reason. Letting them know is always good and if they STILL continue than you should get rid of them you dont need those type of people in your life!
2007-11-16 10:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something else to do, or find someone else to talk to. I wold walk away from the people that are not being nice to me and I most likely would not hang out with them in the future.
2007-11-16 10:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by c s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it really depends on the person that being mean to you. If its someone you know and are friends with and they just like to make fun of you just play wit it and get some good comebacks goin if there good theyll leave you alone if its just a nasty person that doesnt even kno you then confront them and ask them wats up it could be something stupid and yall could end up being friends and then if its just cause they dont like you then forget about it u cant please everyone
2007-11-16 10:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it just other people, say, at school? I'd turn my back and walk away.
If it's a sales clerk or someone who's supposed to be serving me, I repeat my wishes more clearly, and go to the manager if I don't get satisfaction. If the manager can't help me, I leave, and never go back.
TX Mom
2007-11-16 10:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation, but in general it's best to forgive them and avoid dwelling on their treating you unkindly. If there are such people, try to spend more time around those who support you and are kind to you.
Whatever you do, don't try people-pleasing to resolve the problem - because there's always that one other thing you have to do to gain approval.
2007-11-16 10:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to bring positive energy around them. Almost killing them with kindness. I read this article by Earl Nightengale (spelling might be off) anyway. He said that we are the makers of the attitudes around us/ the type of day we are going to have and basically in control of our own happiness. Think about it. If you wake up grumpy, snap at your husband, yell at the people driving around you and walk into work with that same attitude, people are typically going to sense that and be standoffish. Thus making you think they are mad at you.
Try it. Be the maker of your own happiness.
2007-11-16 10:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by prncesdancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a salesperson I ask them if they treat all of their customers that way. They generally look shocked and tone it down.
I generally will call other people on their nastiness as well. I believe it is such a habit for them that they really don't know they are doing it.
2007-11-16 10:22:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋