When do you let go of the past relationship that hurt so bad that you never thought you would be happy again..and while you didn't to meet anyone else..the perfect comes along but your scared to let them in ..so in return you push them away..
In April 2008 it will make 2 yrs since me and my ex ended it..is it time I let someone in?
2007-11-16 10:05:33 · 9 answers · asked by AMANDA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All of life comes down to a leap of faith. It's time to jump.
Good luck. I will pray for your safe landing.
2007-11-16 10:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As strange as it may sound.. you will know when it's the right. Past hurts are very difficult to let go and it affects the way we deal with the next one even if we feel we've let all the past hurts go. Our minds will from time to time go back to those hurts. Trust me...you will know when the right person walks into your life because you will certainly feel it and everything from the past will fade away. In the meantime anyone as you say " you push away" is definitely not the right one. Don't be concerned about the time factor, concern yourself about being able to give your heart to someone that you can't live without.
2007-11-16 13:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! I did the same thing and almost missed the true love of my life! I was so hurt, I promised myself I was never going to love anyone again because I never wanted to hurt like that again. I kept pushing him away...and almost lost him before I realized I did love him and wanted him in my life...I had just been lying to myself. If I had not taken that leap of faith, I would never have known what it was like to have someone love me as much as I love them. It is unexplainable! Go for it and take a chance on being happy! Or more than happy!
2007-11-16 10:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by swtserenity43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never easy to let all those bad memories go especially that you've been hurt so bad. You just need to look past all that and think posative. Not all guys are the same!! most but not all. give it a shot let your guard down when its time. first let him prove to you that he wont hurt you like the guy in the past did. Its not easy for a guy to mend a broken heart but it doesnt hurt to give him a shot!!
2007-11-16 10:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living scared will keep you from being happy your entire life. It's time to let someone else in but be sure to go after someone you like and you trust. Get to know someone first in nuetral settings. Trust your heart and not your eyes.
Good luck.
2007-11-16 10:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by pb07pb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have got to be sure in your heart that you have let him go and only than will you be able to let someone else in because if you hold this person there is no room for the next person to fit in, let go and let god heal your broken heart he can and will do this for you.
best of luck
2007-11-16 11:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good you took time for yourself as hard as it is, so are you put to going out and start dating, what does your head tell you, yes it will be hard to trust again but if you don't get out there and try you will not know, I think everyone has a right person for them, just take it slow, and enjoy yourself.
Best to you.
2007-11-16 10:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you have that answer. You have to be able to let go of the past and move on. Until you do, you won't let anybody in.
2007-11-16 10:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by pappa_15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're ready to love again you will. With true love, the choice won't be yours. It will come naturally.
2007-11-16 10:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by dovesong44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋