I have a friend that just likes me as a brother but she trusts me a lot. she lets me give her massages and stuff but I have never done anything big with her. I am kinda in love with her and she knows it, we spent the night together one night and she passed out during a movie, to whole time she was asleep I wished she would just lean up against me while she slept
2007-11-16 09:49:06 · 13 answers · asked by Kazuma 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
that must be hard
you loving her and nothing ever happening
sorry she dont feel the same
maybe you could cuddle her but no more than that as she dont like you that way
that must suck
2007-11-16 09:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by ♫ღ♥Samantha B™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any unwanted physical contact is too far, especially since she trusts you so much, and it's not actually love unless it's mutual. Also, just because she lets you do something doesn't neccisarily mean that she likes it; she might just not want to hurt your feelings by saying "no".
If you want to be more than friends with her then you need to bring that up with her instead of assuming you know where you stand with her.
2007-11-16 17:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
That really is so sweet. You sound very important to her. I would ask her if she has the same feelings. Be careful though if she does really and trully see you as more of a brother it could make you both uncomfortable. I would definently go for it. Good luck
2007-11-16 17:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her how she sees your relationship. At least then you will know where things are at between the two of you.
Going too far is anything that isn't agreed on, especially if you are not sure how she feels.
2007-11-16 20:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by Alright 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to her about what she thinks about u2 being together as a couple and see if she even wants to go down that road b4 u think about doing physical stuff with her but maybe sit real close to her when you talk to her
2007-11-16 17:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
mmm, hurts just thinkin about it.
I'm useless with this stuff but I can relate.
2007-11-16 17:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsy Priest 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww you should ask her out....i think she loves you too.cuz the way you described the way she treats you.
â¥
2007-11-16 17:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont really understand your question
but no you didnt go too far
2007-11-16 17:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by yogibear989 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ewww
That seems veryy VERY Stalkerishh
ummmm yaaa
And the question has nothing to do with the details you added.
so yaaa get a lifee
because we dont wanna know thesee wierd stalkerish stories that you have.
Mkay?
2007-11-16 17:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋
why dont you just ask her out?
2007-11-16 17:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋