I'm just tired of being ingle, with no boyfriend. people say I'm cute, smart, nice....... But what should I do to meet guys and have a relationship that might lead to marriage. I'm so bored. I joined a club, went to bookstores, coffe shops, took classes. What's up with me ?????
I'm so bored, and scared that I'm gonna be by myself for the rest of my life I wanna have a family
Thanks for advices from wise people
2007-11-16 09:32:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-11-16 10:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by lovehealer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to get married, you have to have two people that loves eachother and wants to get married. This is not something you can do alone. And you can't live your life around trying to get married. Trust me, you'll find that special someone, fall in love, get married, have kids, get the in-laws like the rest of us and having to deal with them. Marriage is not a dream come true. It's a work-in-progress that will very well take you the rest of your life. So enjoy your life now! Go out with your friends and have fun. Volunteer your time, explore the things you have an interest in. Because you won't get to do that after you are married, not as much. See this time as a break before you get into marriage.
2007-11-16 09:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try dating sites. What worked best for me was to get out in a social setting like a party or a bar or a club. You could even meet a guy at work. I think you are trying to hard. Don't worry love will find you just keep an eye out.
2007-11-16 09:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by snowflake311 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever considered a dating site on the net that may work or maybe you have a local dating service. Sometimes it may just take some professional help to find that special someone. I met my wife at a karoake club if that helps.
Really though it is when you are not looking for love that love finds you. Maybe you are trying to hard and may come off desperate relax and just be yourself and you may be surprised what may happen.
Have you considered church?.
2007-11-16 09:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey listen, I'm 30...I feel you. I dated my first bf for SEVEN years, second for THREE years, and third for 14 months...talk about discouraging. However, I am damn glad that I didn't marry any one of those guys...it would have been a HUGE mistake. The risk you run now, with your mentality where it is, is that you will jump at the first opportunity and settle just because a guy asked...be at peace with yourself (sans man) first! Tell yourself that you may NEVER get married and accept that...then you'll be pleasantly surprised when someone comes along.
2007-11-16 09:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by laura1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look were have you gone and don't go their again most boy are doing what boy's like to do " the pool hall " not the grunge type more like a bar and grill tv's so as to watch the game!!
have you tried hitting on those ups guys and what about the guy behind the counter say the meat market or say the nice looking guy a the auto parts store their are endless the thing is try to find the shy one pack em and bag em!!
2007-11-16 09:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by J. P. 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think guys, at least the ones worth having, are looking for women with great self esteem, and positive personalities. Men really like a challenge so give them one. I know it sounds old fashioned, but play hard to get. Women are far too easy nowadays and the really great guys are looking for the same thing you are. A real catch.
Whatever you do don't settle for less than you deserve.
2007-11-16 09:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to get married? What is wrong with enjoying life, take in life's experiences instead of being tied down in a relationship? Live together with a guy, you will be better off. To ruin a great relationship, get married.
2007-11-16 09:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by acedelux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not a great big bag of crazy, I'll introduce you to my bro in law (realistically, he just needs a really good woman in his life to help pull him out of the funk he's been in). He's a good guy...but he tends to be a little bit on the side of the bag of crazy every now and then. LOL
2007-11-16 09:48:23 · answer #9 · answered by lupinesidhe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually when you're not looking for it, it happens.
Have you tried meeting someone online?? Yes, you will meet a bunch of creeps, but there are nice guys out there too. I met my boyfriend online and he proposed to me on October 31, my birthday. Stay strong, it will happen.
2007-11-16 09:44:35 · answer #10 · answered by MRS SOLOMON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋