I have a male neighbor thats about 60 years old, retired with a good pension. My wife visits and talks to him a lot. He visits her at my home but seems to always leave before or when I get home. Also, they sometimes like to have a few drinks together to the point of her being trashed when I get home on a few occasions.
Now I dont want to jump to any conclusions but what is going on here? My wife and I are both in our mid 30's by the way.
2007-11-16 09:16:02 · 10 answers · asked by cougar_mccxxi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Perhaps they are just friends. However, she is your wife and should not be doing things that make you uncomfortable in your own home. I never have male company in my house when my fiance is not home, even if they are his friends. I don't do that NOT because he is controlling but because I love and respect him and do not want to give him any reason to question that. Talk to your wife. That kind of behavior is not appropriate. Do it lovingly and not accusingly. I hope it works out for you!
2007-11-16 09:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the man of the house. Any visitor should leave when the owner of the house arrives, because that's good ettiquette. He's been gracious by doing so.
Honestly, you are being jealous and insecure of a 60 yeard old fart? Damn, baby, you are way exagerating here.
Good luck (you have nothing to worry about)
2007-11-16 17:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are just friend he could even be like a father figure to her that is what I think I mean why not he is old she is thirty it is not like they are goingto have sex or anything think about it. Or maybe she wants to become really good friends with him so that she can leave her some pention. Just kidding you best bet is to ask her and don't worry about it start worrying when she does not want anything to do with you.
2007-11-16 17:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is like that with our nextdoor neighbor too, although the yare a couple. They are freinds.
Unless this 60yr old guy is Robert Redford, you should have nothing to worry about. (All women like Robert Redford)
2007-11-16 17:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sean C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is a good listener and helps her if she needs someone to talk to when you are not around.
I know sometimes if my husband is not available and I have a minor issue I will call a male friend of mine. and we will chit chat.
However, there is no drinking going on...so I dunno about that.
2007-11-16 17:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may be on their way towards alcoholism. At this point you need to do your research and become honest with yourself about what may be going on.
Good luck.
2007-11-16 17:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely they are friends. Trust your wife.
2007-11-16 17:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by THE RESCUE LLAMA!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they are friends. Does that really present a problem?
2007-11-16 17:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by just_me_in_md 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have anything to concerned about. He is probably lonely and she feels bad for him.
2007-11-16 17:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by karls dream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda fishy and weird...i would look more closely into the situation
2007-11-16 17:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋