It doesn't matter if they are rich, poor, black, white, hispanic, asian, driving a nice car or a clunker. I catch myself thinking something negative about complete strangers and ask myself why am I being so negative, then get lost in introversion and fail to sociolize in a normal manner. Suggestions?
2007-11-16 09:01:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
work herd to think of things that u like about that person or persons and say one thing nice to them.
2007-11-16 11:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are judging people!!!! So not ur job! I use to be that way!
God is the only one to pass judgment!!! be silent and listen to these people. Give everyone a chance. It's difficult but u never know what has happened to them in their life time. Breathe! u'd be schocked what people need to talk about! it'll blow ur doors in! count ur blessings! everyday! things will get better
2007-11-16 17:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by brenda f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are generally distrustful. Trustful people like most people they meet, until they give them a reason to dislike them.
2007-11-16 17:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by mediahoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand, It could be their mannerisms, or basically body language or how they carry themselves!!! I find myself trying to not be that way but sometimes it is really difficult.
2007-11-16 17:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had people I did not like become my best friend. You should get to know them before you judge
2007-11-16 17:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by atti_cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have asked myself this que many times.... on deeper observation, i realised that its the way the other person exhibits his/her body lang.... also to b taken into account is our own upbringin. wat might b a normal way of life to others mite b revolting to us and vise versa..... the best way to combat u becomin negativ wud b to just read a person rather than study him n realise that u dont hate them,u just revolt or dont lik the sight of them... in my experience,many ppl who wer initially revoltin to me turned out to b nice ppl @ d end of the day... so go by their character if u actually hav to meet up wth them rather dan goin by the looks.
2007-11-16 17:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by jstcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try catching yourself first, then re analyze that person after you realized you did your dislike thing...
2007-11-16 17:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by smartiebc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do that too i dont know why either
2007-11-16 17:08:33 · answer #8 · answered by ... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋