How do you stat talking to your wife about Swinging?

Question

My wife is open Minded and probably wouldn't mind to be involved in a threesome but I dont know how to start talking to her about it.

Answer 1

Make it a habit before you sleep to conversely talk with your loving wife. A regular conversation between a couples will help a lot those married couples on how to maintain the married relationship more closer friendship between them. A feeling of security when often conversation is also felt. Honesty is getting stronger. Conversation will settle any difference when it comes to become a gap. It would help you to be more closer and closer and honestly, you will feel happy all the times. Discuss everything from work related topics, friends, family and your future family plans and until your topics getting deeper into an open sex, like the now lfestyles.

When this discussion made you regularly, try to divert one topic on how to evaluate and enhances sexuality, to explore sex and sex experiments so long the both of you would willing and interested. Try to open up the idea of today's generation of "lifestyle-the wife swapping or swinging" or the threesome session. Tell her the advantanges and disadvantages of having an experienced sex on different variety as long as medical protection is considered. This lifestyles is an alternatives for married couples only to reduce the probable cheating between couples to keep maintain the family active sexually specially older married couples for many years. A limitation and or boundary to an open sex married would need to discussed too.

Answer 2

Being involved in a threesome is not the same thing as swinging.

Swinging is basically wife swapping. So you would be banging some other woman and she would be banging another man. Are you really sure that is what you would want?

A threesome is certainly a big thing to ask of her too. Sounds great in theory, and probably looks real fun in porn movies, but remember, this is your wife.

Sometimes what we fantasise about and what we could really handle are two different things. Be sure that you could really stomach the things you would be asking her to do here. No matter how 'open minded' you both are, this is a heck of a big step to take. Be very careful.

Answer 3

It may be a good turn on as something you imagine and masturbate. But I doubt it will do anything good - unless you know for sure that you and her are really really really open-minded people - if implemented practically. It actually may hurt quite a lot afterwards.

Answer 4

if you love your wife, do not even think about going there. My friends decided they could swing, and it ended up horrible, she fell for another guy, and the guy she fell for got divorced. My friend said it was the biggest mistake, and even though they did work it out, they are not happy, and he will never be able to forget it. so don't do it!!! find other ways to spice up your sex life, bringing other people into it will only cause trouble.

Answer 5

Offer the lady a divorce, so that she can find a real man, worthy of her respect, admiration passion and trust. It ain't you. And swinging? Quickest way to end your marriage, so you may as well get the divorce over with so you can walk away knowing you hurt no one. Few marriages come out the other side the same. Ask any counselor. Beginning of the end

Answer 6

If you do, you'd better be POSITIVE that she will say yes. Thats not one you can take back. And if you don't know what she'll say, then you really don't know her that well.

Answer 7

The perfect fantasy is also the perfect relationship killer.

Don't. Do. It.

Answer 8

Why the heck would you want to do that??? That is something you do before you you are married... I wouldn't go there - it can only cause damage!!!!

Answer 9

just say babe, I want to be porked by other women and watch you recieve some fresh sausage. Simple as that.

Answer 10

After sex, while you two are laying there snuggling, discuss fantasies.