There is this kid that goes to my middle school, that is a jerk to me, and embarrasses me and my friends all the time. He is rude, and he gets me into trouble. How can I get humiliating revenge on him, without feeling guilt, and without getting caught? Also, DON'T TELL ME "REVENGE IS BAD" OR ANY LECTURES LIKE THAT. ALL I WANT IS IDEAS! SHEESH!
2007-11-16 08:43:48 · 34 answers · asked by Bryan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I won't tell you it's bad, but it is likely to backfire, and make you look worse. Tempting, but don't do it.
2007-11-16 08:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by sarah jane 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best revenge is to be happy and let him see you always having a good time with your friends. This will upset him the most.
People like that who are bullies are actually very sad and jelous of the people they're being jerks to. He wants you to sink to his level so he doesn't feel like he's the only one that feels sad....it's the only way he knows how to handle the way he's feeling.
Think about how lucky you are to NOT be like him. Don't get involved in revenge...you will end up regretting it and feeling worse.
2007-11-16 08:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by Eve 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why should we help you do something that will make it worse for YOU in the long run?
One of the reasons, revenge is not a good idea is because it backfires.
It also makes YOU just as awful as the person you want to FIX!
My best advice-stay away from this person and grow some guts and realize he can't bother you, unless YOU allow it.
2007-11-16 08:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The without feeling guilt part is going to get you. If you have a conscience, you will feel guilty. It will stay with you for the rest of your life. It may likely backfire, and everyone will think you're the jerk. But hey, it's up to you.
2007-11-16 08:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Isaac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol...no lecture...ok so seems to me like thinking about this in a different way may help you...i hated middle school...and usually the kids that would be an a$$ to other kids was that way because his or her life is not doing well, and they have some serious issues that they bottle up and take out on kids like you and your friends...next time he comes around and starts bugging don't give inn, because then your adding fuel to his fire! don't be afraid to call him out in front of everyone...kids like him torment other kids they think are weaker then they are and helpless, so show him your not! good luck!
2007-11-16 08:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by Insidious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Let me tell you why: If you go down this path, you'll be FOREVER planning and scheming and calculating your next move to getting even. You will be FOREVER thinking that someone else is also planning and scheming just like you. You will NEVER rest in peace.
Confront this guy, avoid talking and associating with him, and get your friends to be your witnesses. REPORT him.
Just as long as YOU do yourself a favor in the long run.
2007-11-16 09:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by Lighthouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres my idea for you. I had this realy annoying girl that did the same thing but i knew exactly what to do. I decied to type up "ms. ****** a *****" and leave the note in her classroom. When she found it right after lunch the school interviewed everyone who was in that class. All my friends lied to the vice principle and gave an excuse for why he didn't see me at lunch and that they had mysteriously seen this girl leave the cafe. All my friends testified against her and she got suspended. LOLLLLLLLLLL. good luck and make sure you get good friends
2007-11-16 08:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by Shadow Spirit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you really want revenge my friend? forget humiliation.. grab the back of his head with your left hand, and pull it towards your right elbow, which should smash into the bridge of his nose.. he'll crumble to the ground amid the horrified gasps of your classmates. they will all think your crazy and nobody will ever fck with you again... imagine your elbow going through his face and into your left hand.. follow through is key
revenge is about being cold and vicious
2007-11-16 08:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest grow up, but seeing as revenge is your thing, I'd personally get your mates to tie him up to a lampost and utilise a rather large vegetable, then post it on UTube...
A butternut squash (ouch) should gain you a few stars lol.
2007-11-16 08:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by MikeD2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Punch that fool in da face when know teachers are around and tell him if he continues to embarass you that you will do it again and to appologize to you in public, or just stick a sign on his back that says im a retard kick me!!
2007-11-16 09:05:35 · answer #10 · answered by dirt rider 69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go up to him and be like go "f*ck urself and find out soemthing really bad about him and spread it around the school so it becomes a rumor!!" thats my seet revenge and if u dont like it im sorry but bileve it makes the person feel like s*it
2007-11-16 08:50:29 · answer #11 · answered by Rosiee 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋