What am I? I am confused!?

Question

I am 13 years old, LOVE GUYS, and somethign bad is happening to me.
I always thought 'wow i would never ever be lesbian', and when ever I though or saw 2 girls together it grossed me out. Now I am scared to death I am turing myself bi because I stopeed thinking that it was gross. PELASE HELP! Am I lesbian, becasue I do NOT want to be! I've been watching too much mtv shows haha.

Answer 1

I empathize with you. You sound like you're having a difficult time. From some previous questions you have asked, you said that you have an anxiety disorder and worry about all kind of things. That once you start worrying, it's difficult to stop. I don't believe that you have any problems with being a lesbian, it's just a worry.

If you are on a medication to reduce your anxiety, you are either not on the right medicine or your doctor needs to increase the dose of the medication that you're on.

What you are dealing with is a chemical problem in your brain and you will need medications to feel better. I have problems with anxiety also. My doctor has me on Buspar and it helps a lot. It is not addictive so I don't have to worry about that. HaHa. You might mention it when you see your doctor again.

I hope you have an appointment to see your doctor soon. If you don't, please call the office and see if your doctor can see you sooner. You are having way too much anxiety and I believe you can feel better when you are on the right dose of the right medicine.

God bless you honey.

Answer 2

Relax, you're 13, your hormones are in high gear, and probably everything turns you on all the time. 13 year olds (boys and girls) tend to be bisexual (or ambisexual I call it, able to enjoy sex with either gender but still basically straight). It's not permanent, usually, just the demands of your body making you be more open to all the possibilities out there for sex. The older you get, the more clear it will be who really turns you on, who you'd really rather be with.

In any case, you're going to be who and what you're going to be, and there's nothing you can do about it, so you might as well relax and enjoy the ride!

Answer 3

Chances are you have been watching too much mtv. Two girls kissing or grinding on the dance floor is just not that unusual to see these days so you've probably just become desensitized to it.

If it starts to turn you on, then that's another story.

Answer 4

There is nothing wrong with thinking being lesbian is gross. You are just accepting it. You are fine. I lived in s.f, which is like a super gay place, and before i was like, it is gross to be gay, but now i think it is fine because it just matters that people can be free to express themselves.

Answer 5

If we're going to base this on categories, a lesbian is a girl/woman who is physically, sexually and emotionally attracted to another girl/woman only. So if you're not like that, then there's nothing you have to worry about! ;)

Answer 6

All teens are confused and naturally so. Rest, say some prayers, try to ground yourself with things you like. Love will come someday. You will be just fine. Blessed Be

Answer 7

just because you think it isn't gross it doesn't make you gay
if you like girls the way you like guys you're bi
don't worry!

Answer 8

ive been asking the same thing myslef, but truthfully it is just hormones raging and they will for a couple more years.

dont worry

PEACE=]

Answer 9

rather than worry try a relationship with a girl. see if you can enjoy it

Answer 10

Youre getting upset for nothing . same sex attraction is commen at your age .