Is it possible to be a girl and a boy at the same time?

Question

I'm not a tranny or anything, and I have desire to dress like a girl, but I think I'm more of a girl emotionally, even though I have a boy body.

I meant to say that I DON'T have a desire to dress like a girl

Answer 1

I guess if you get half-@$$ed sex change...

Answer 2

We all have a little of both in us. Our society has made a practice of dividing traits and emotions and toys and everything by gender - it is almost like places where men and women have to live apart and can't do things together! Boys and girls are allowed to do the same thing until they are ready for school - then we start dividing them up and telling them what is appropriate for their "type". It makes life seem more complex than it is. My mom was always very unapproachable emotionally and totally un-nurturing - she just couldn't feel it. She was aggressive and competitive and it was really hard on her to take the time out to raise us but she "did her duty." My dad was always the one to be sad if we were sad and happy if we were happy - the one who was sympathetic and loved us unconditionally. My mom would let us know she wanted more performance out of us all the time - like we were never really good enough. Weird? Yes. Unusual? No. Plenty of other women respond when I talk about my "Major Mom". My mom was loaded with male traits and my father with ones we might call feminine, but I never heard anyone give him grief. He was well respected in his profession and his staff worked exceptionally hard under his direction. He was a man, but he was also able to share his emotions "like a woman". There is no problem in that. We are what we are. Men don't usually expect other men to have to love sports anymore - though they will tease you a little for crying, even though, in private, most do cry. Most women I know are looking for a man who is emotionally "available" - meaning someone who can cry with them and talk with them and sympathize as a friend as well as being in a relationship with them - though they may still prefer that YOU kill the big nasty spider in the hall! ;).

Answer 3

Venus yes its possible, although our gender is predicted at conception when all the cells are dividing and whenthe tail falls off and forms our genitals there are times when one is born with male and female parts.
as far as being a boy biologically yes atcertain ages when we wanna know about our sexuality takes alittle taste testing for some to find there right flavor, and i think that it is sad that when a boy feels "confused"or not sure parents just throw what there son tells them out the window, when a boy is not sure or pushing towards being gay because they dont feel like a boy and they have no one to talk to cause of all the judging, he is prone to suicide. I am no one to judge. I had close homosexual and lesbian friends. people say its wrong your not born gay, but for all those with tatoos nose rings nipple rings belly rings makeup breast implants etc.. they were not born that way either. so hope i answered your question. the answer is yes.
Maybe your metrosexual? what everm just take time to find you dont be someone your not and dont be ashamed. you have one life just be safe!!

Answer 4

It is possible I suppose but you may just be a very sensitive person. That doesn't mean anything about you being feminine though. Since you don't have the feminine desires, I think you are normal. There are a lot of men like this, they are just afraid people will take them wrong.

Answer 5

Yes, I believe it's possible to feel emotionally like a girl but in a boys body.

Answer 6

I think I understand what you're saying because growing up I felt I didn't fit in the 'normal' look for girls and my voice was different from them. I got along WAY better with boys than with girls. But it was a phase that I passed through because I'm sooooo girly now it's not funny. Wear skirts, make-up (still working on it) and earrings and stuff

Answer 7

Not unless you were born with both parts...few poeple are.
I am a girl but am a tomboy. I can put on a dress & feel very much like a woman & beautiful & whenI dress boyish or just tshirt & jeans & hanging with the guys I feel more like one of them so I think it is all in what you wear & how you feel & what your personality is. Yous sound like you may just be a feminine guy.

Answer 8

yes absolutely. i've watched a few discovery channel shows on this topic - physically being male(female) and having the emotional and mental attributes of the opposite sex. it's an extremely interesting notion. maybe you can find a transcript of the episodes or purchase the tapes on the discovery channel website. i wish i could remember the names of the episodes, but alas - i cannot.

good luck and don't feel ashamed of the way you feel inside. genetics are a strange, wonderful, and completely mysterious part of life that not even the best scientist can always figure out.

Answer 9

No, it's not possible. There is a very distinct difference between the hardwiring of guys and girls, not just physical differences. If you have the anatomy of a male, you're a guy. Period. Even if your emotions are a bit more feminine (more sensitive, or whatever). It's just something uniquely you.

Answer 10

Yeah.
Scientists recently have begun looking at gender as more of a spectrum than just a black/white thing.
Besides,
haven't you ever heard of those people who are like a boy's mind in a girl's body or vice versa?

Answer 11

If it was just about the emotional part I would say you are more emotional than most boys that's all. Nothing wrong with that. As far as anything else I couldn't tell you never been in that position.