2007-11-16 06:57:59 · 13 answers · asked by BananaPancakes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well say they had plenty of room and didn't care if you lived there. Recent statistics show people are living with their parents longer because of the cost of living. What if the relationship doesn't work out and then you are homeless or something.
2007-11-16 07:07:35 · update #1
Speaking as a married woman and living 22 hellish years in my parents house, I'm choosing getting married, which I've done.
2007-11-16 07:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by Yummy♥Mummy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on three major issues:
What type of person you are
What kind of parents/living arrangements you have with them
What sort of person you marry.
The natural progression is to grow up and leave the nest. Anyone who stays at home full time beyond the maximum age of adulthood (21), from my experience, has something fundamentally wrong with them.
If your parents need you, and the living arrangements are as such that allow for maximum privacy, (separate entrance, adjoining town house. Not your childhood bedroom with the posters on the wall) then there might be some cases of adult children living with the parents fool time.
What type of person you marry can either make your life better or it can take a turn for the worse. That's up to you.
You forgot one thing. There is the option of moving out and being independently self supporting without marriage, at least for a while. It will give you a true chance to grow up and learn about life, without parents interference and without a partner's protection/demands. etc.
That way, you can truly know yourself, and choose wisely, with regards to husband, life's direction and becoming a fully functioning, contributing member of society.
Good luck.
2007-11-16 07:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha well I moved out of my parents house to another city at 18, had several different roomates throughout my 4 years of university, then I moved to yet another city even further away from my parents and have been living here for 3 years..... I was single up until a year ago, bought my own house and was/am completely independant. I wouldn't change it for a thing! You need the experience of being on your own - totally on your own, find yourself, really learn about who you are and depend only on yourself.... I am now starting a family with a man I love dearly - and would have never met had I not took the opportunities I did. Living at home - definitely not for everyone!
2007-11-16 07:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by Betty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the best life ever now that i'm out of my parents house,married and living in a small but cozy house with my husband awaiting the birth of our first child! Don't get me wrong,life was alot easier under mom and dad's roof but I wouldn't trade my life now for anything! Getting married and starting our family is the ultimate dream come true!
2007-11-16 07:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by Just Call Me Jenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 10:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get married for love. if you get married move out. if it doesn't work, i'm sure your parents will take you in. Remember life with some one new is cool at first but gets harder as it goes, you have to work at anything that you want to last.
2007-11-16 07:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by Tray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to answer this. There are too many variables. Where do you live? how old are you? are you marriying just to get out? is it a guy or girl? are you sure they aren't abusive? Maybe you should just get a small apartment and a cat, and see how things go??
2007-11-16 07:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by jasmine e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay at home...There is food, aplace to sleep, to do laundry,intertainment.. usually at little or no cost to you..
However, you have to follow parents rules, because it's their house.
If you move out... you pay for all that.. come and go as you please.
If you marry.. you pay for all that.. consider your spouse when you come and go...
I chose #2
2007-11-16 07:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm,,not living with my parents!?!?,,i've moved out and gotten married,and happy with that decision,,hell even before i was married,,i had already moved out,,
2007-11-16 07:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want to get married soo bad. have lots of kids and have my own place and my own house.. and have a wonderful handsome husband that deosn't disrespect me or cheat on me and wants me and only me forever and ever and cant get enough of me.. that is my dream.
too i attract big idiots that throw me away because they cheat on me... or dont appriciate me.
stupid idiots.
2007-11-16 07:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋