how can i vent my anger?

Question

silly question really. i have like lots of parent issues and ununderstanding parents. are there any websites where i can vent my anger and explain ppl my problem to which ppl will reply to. besides yahoo answers cuz it already rocks. i wanna use something else now.

Answer 1

This is NOT a silly question. It is probably the cleverest question you can ask and just the fact that you are asking, is cleverer than the average people are capable.
That you ask this question shows that you are not content to be angry, you don't get any satisfaction out of it, you feel that you are not doing good releasing your anger by projecting it to other people, giving them the fault and so you want to change this and not getting angry at all anymore. Good, this is an advanced condition and intention.
The next step is, that you understand what is causing that you are angry and you mentioned already, that you have parent issues. This might be the direction you need to investigate about. How you can do this? Observe yourself when you are getting angry. This can be a reaction to situations or the behavior of people. This might be a situation similar to one in your past when you were not yet able to react and express your disappointment and frustration. So you have accumulated anger that was stored and suppressed, with the result that you are looking for a release and you are using whatever situation with people, trying to release some of the pressure. You feel that this is no solution, so you are asking for help.
Maybe the best would be, that you find somebody you can talk with, who can understand you. Just expressing yourself could already clear up something.
If you don't have somebody, you can write to me, although this is not the same as talking person to person. But at least writing gives you the opportunity to express yourself and you can be sure, that I will listen to you and also answer.
This 'answer.yahoo' is a great space, but of course it has its limitations, even though we can use it in the best way possible. You are on the right track, go on!
BeiYin

Answer 2

Anger is a program and can only be vented by rethinking where you will vent it. It is better to avoid such situations that give rise to your anger and then you wont have to vent it. Most of us have learned to integrate anger into our daily routines and in that some consider it therapeutical. For example, when I work on the engine of a car usually my most effect work is when I have made myself angry and I vent this anger by going deeper into the engine and getting to the problem and fixing it.
It can also be a nuisance and problem. For example, I am a very angry truck driver. My irritation gets to some loud degrees as I manage the highways and byways of transportation America. Yet I have not had an accident ever and I always get my load to its destination on time and I am considered a capable LTL driver in and around Los Angeles. Yet if there were a microphone in my cab I'm sure I would have been fired years ago. One must learn how to vent in positive and constructive manners. The best is no anger or stress but in reality there are so many combinations present in each and every anger one must know what is going on and know how to control it and make it a usefull tool in ones life if no other means is sensible.

Answer 3

I perpetrate some prank, yet make confident that the guy who brought about my anger gets the blame. I determine that's the least i can do for all of the superb thngs that they've finished for me.

Answer 4

kickboxing works wonders