I'm sooo stupid..............I'm crying just because i'm not the type (appearence +personality) of my crush... We just don't match even as friends but i can't accept it . He is the guy that can make me have no limits.... I hate myself that i'm not good enough for him.. I hate me. I'm crying like a fool !!!!!!!
2007-11-16 06:26:40 · 23 answers · asked by ....................... 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well, I'm so sorry to hear that you're crying.... It's rough not being the type of the one you want to be with so badly. It's happened to me, too.
I'm here for you, if you want me to be. You don't have to stop crying; it might be good to get it all out now. But, please don't hate yourself over this or for any reason....
I'm sure you're a beautiful person; just continue to be yourself. Chin up, okay?
2007-11-16 12:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what. If he isn't interested in you, he wasn't the one meant for you....
That is okay, imagine other guys who might like you, but you aren't interested in them. it is the same way. It just isn't meant to be.
There is someone out there that is right for you.
and maybe this guy is "the cutest" and you have a huge crush on him. That is okay, there will be others. Imagine in 10-15 years when you come back for your reunion, you will both be different, perhaps then you will be right for one another.
You have a long life ahead of you, with a million experiences both good and bad. Get a goal, something to look forward too. Have you ever wanted to travel?
Look into being a foreign exchange student. That is a great opportunity. Ask your school councilor about it, there are often scholarships available.
There are several programs from a summer school, to semester, to year long programs. Don't worry about the language, you will learn it, don't stress about it, it doesn't matter how good you are at it.
Good luck. Find something to do and get busy, it will get your mind off guy's who don't appreciate you.
2007-11-16 06:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Buzz B 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh Honey, don't cry over a romance failing on this website. These things happen every day here. He is just a cartoon and no matter what he writes, he could be lying. And you don't know how many other girls he emails. Don't confuse this PC stuff with real relationships. Please? If he told you in any way, that he is better than you are, he is a Grade A Loser and a Liar. Good riddance!! Cry and get over it and live to rise again!!
2007-11-16 06:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE's not good enough for YOU. A crush is just that--a crush. Call up some friends and go hang out -- it's Friday! Ya never know, the REAL guy that can 'make you have no limits' may just be waiting for you there! Take it easy on yourself!
2007-11-16 06:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by HAZE S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you saying your not pretty? that cant be true. we are all beautiful in our own way. did he tell you that your not his type? if he did.dont worry. there will be other guys. you are bound to find someone your type. dont get discouraged. since your sad becuase you think you dont have something, think of all the good things you have. dont hate yourself. i dont know if your a christian but if you are rememeber that god made you the way you are and he thinks your beautiful. thats all that matters, right?if your not a christian then im sorry for than last comment. think positive and do something that you enjoy to cheer yourself up. eat a chocoalet bar!im sure you'll feel better after that. if you dont like chocolate then boy am i bad at giving advice! just kidding. smilee :]
2007-11-16 06:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is really too short to lust after people that don't lust after us - it is their loss - you will find someone that will appreaciate who you are exactly the way you are - cry if you want to - it is only way to get it out of your system but know that at least you have realized that both of you are not a match - this way you can move forward. A whole new adventure awaits:)
2007-11-16 06:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by JDa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry you are so upset. However, you should only allow yourself to wallow for so long. Once you have had enough, start looking for someone else...someone better. In the long run, you will find what you are looking for and be a lot happier and better off than you would have with this person you are complaining about.
2007-11-16 06:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't be ashamed to cry. It sucks, it's not fun, and you wish it would end. But it's better than keeping it in.
As for not being a perfect match with your crush, I bet you have more in common than you think. Or did you ever hear of the phrase "opposites attract"? :)
2007-11-16 06:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by Pooty Pootwell 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do not think you are not good enough for him, he is not good enough for you!!!!!! No crush is worth crying over, because crushes are temporary. You haven't found your true love yet, he's out there somewhere, do not give up!!!
2007-11-16 06:31:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
snap out of it! didnt u ever stop to wonder that ur "crush" may not be good enuff for you??!! stop looking at ur flaws and take a look at his: hes not a saint, is he? and im sure he doesnt look like Hayden Christensen, does he? then find someone more up to par with you and stop whining over a stupid guy! they come a dime a dozen anyway, trust me.
2007-11-16 06:32:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋