I had sex with 2 guys 3 days apart(one the 23rd, next the 26th) and I ended up preg. i used a condom with one but it broke and it was unprotcted with the other but he used the withdrawl method so he didn't ejaculate inside me. I don't know the exxact date of my last menstral cycle only that it was in the beginning of Oct I belive around the 6th or 7th. I know that with the guys being only 3 days apart there really is no way of telling without a paternity test and I also know that neither guy is going to be thrilled about me having this baby. I am 26 and already have a 6 yr old.
Spare me all the details about unprotected sex and sleeping with 2 guys so close together blah blah blah. I know that I made a mistake and now I am dealing with it. I just want to see what you all out there think. I had a postitive preg test on Sun 11-11 and on Mon i went to the doc and had a blood test. When the results came back my HCG level was 1305 which puts me around 4-5 wks preg.
2007-11-16 05:59:44 · 14 answers · asked by KillahKam 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
thanks everyone so far for all of your responses. I have let them both know that they baby might be theirs. I should be able to tell right after the baby is born who's it is becasue lucky for me one guys white and one is black. And I am going to have the baby no matter what. Yes I made a mistake but that doesnt mean I should terminate a human life becuase of it.
2007-11-16 06:14:28 · update #1
Well since the only real way to tell would be a paternity test, I will tell you my story.
I started my period on Oct 2nd and was due to ovulate on or around the 22nd, I am now just over 6 weeks pregnant.
Since you started your period almost a week after me, I would guess you ovulated about a week after me, around the 27th. My guess would be that guy #2 is the father, based on this alone.
But it is very close, since you are fertile a few days before ovulation and even after ovulation. However, you are most fertile the day before, of and after ovulation.....making # 2 more likely than #1.
Hope Ive made sense.
Best of luck to you!
2007-11-16 06:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by obsolete_allurement 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since both potentials were so close together and the circumstances with both could have gotten you pregnant, there's no way to tell until you actually have the baby. And even then, you may need a paternity test to figure out who the actual father is. If you haven't done so, I'd let both of them know that you're pregnant and the father is one of them.
2007-11-16 14:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately you will have to wait until the baby and have a DNA test.
Good luck to you- my biggest piece of advice is- be honest with both of the guys. In the end, they won't be able to talk trash (and your right- that you slept w/ 2 guys that close together...they can only give you sh*t about that but for so long)
take care! Believe it or not- the drama will be a distant memory soon enough.
2007-11-16 14:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by jmd72inva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be either one.
Doesn't matter that the one guy didn't ejaculate inside of you. Pre-ejaculate was present from arousal, and contains happy little determined sperm.
Perhaps this is yet another shining example of why sleeping with two men in the same month is a BAD IDEA.
2007-11-16 14:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may make you feel better to know that if your last period was around the begining of the month, you most likely ovulated around the 18th to 21st of the month. That being said, whoever you were with during on or closest to those dates is most likely the father, if that was the one when the condom broke, the sperm made it in, but withdrawal is NOT a very effective method because some sperm are released prior to ejaculation, so if he was the 23rd it's probably him
2007-11-16 14:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by hot_fat_chik1982 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ya just like everyone said the only true way to tell is getting the DNA test cause you did them so close together. good luck.
2007-11-16 14:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too close to tell. It could be either one of them. Sorry, but you are going to have to wait and do a DNA test.
Good Luck.
2007-11-16 14:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by LasVegasMomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sperm live in the body up to a week at most. so if the condom broke it is very well they were mingled together and it is no telling. i would have to say the first guy's sperm had a headstart, that is if they were not washed out or something in the process. sorry, but your going to have to wait it out.
2007-11-16 14:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by correct2b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be eithers baby your just going to have to wait and see.
2007-11-16 14:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by Desiree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet would talk to your doctor about it. There are tests that need to be done. Good Luck and Congrats on your baby.
2007-11-16 14:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by tarie75 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋