My husband cheated on me with his "babymama." She's the one that told me about them having sex. He told me it was a lie. But he never asked her why she told me that. He said she was a B**** and he hated her and that he would never cheat on me with her. I put him out. Now he's calling her conversating with her like nothing happened. Yet still wanting to be with me. What the hell is going on?
2007-11-16 05:52:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When a man "hates" his ex or baby mama that means he really "loves" her. Remember that... If you go back to him he will continue to cheat with her. You have no control over him going over there to see his child, that's going to be his excuse. It's obvious he seeing more than his child. Move on he doesn't deserve you.
2007-11-16 07:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by KSR 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know, he cheated on you. She's telling the truth and your own husband just lied to you. Of course he wants to stay with you and get some from his ex, too. Are you going to allow that?
2007-11-16 16:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sondra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww, Baby mama drama, move on she will drive you crazy forever and he obviously hasn't had his fill of her. However, some baby mommas are looney and will lie to cause friction like what has occured with your relationship. If he really didn't do you really wnat to live in the drama anyway. Let her have him.
2007-11-16 13:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by married with kids 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With me it was opposite when in committed relationship my cousin who was married flirted texted smsed yeah its cheating these days new ways to cheat long distance she told me about it herself then blamed him for everything abused left him for good he told me the truth changed got back together committed married.
2007-11-16 14:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah. you've got some drama. maybe he feels that since you put him out that it's easy for him to turn to her. you should have confronted both of them at the same time about the cheating. that way you would've known what was really up. good luck.
2007-11-16 15:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by hiswife04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats happening is he's playing you like a fiddle.
How's it feel to know you're being taken advantage of and that his opinion of your intelligence is as low as whale crap at the bottom of the ocean floor?
So...what are you gonna do about it?
2007-11-16 14:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes a cheater, you shouldnt believe anything that he has to say. It seems like he is feeling both of you out to see where he would be more comfortable. Leave him, he isnt worth it and you deserve better than that.
2007-11-16 13:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Say goodbye to him. Its not worth the heartache, the hassel, the worry... Its not worth it!!! You can find someone else who will be tru to you and not cheat, lie, decieve... You thankyourself in the long run!
2007-11-16 13:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget about this jerk... move on, nothing to "get" here except for the fact that he's a loser and not really a man, he's a boy... find a real man!
2007-11-16 14:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't believe a dam thing he says. he is a cheater , a creep, leave his azz behind.
2007-11-16 14:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by rodriguez m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋