I always seem to take care of everyone else first.
2007-11-16 04:42:04 · 16 answers · asked by orange c 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
YES! I have always put other people first, since I was a child. Something about me wants everyone to happy.
2007-11-16 04:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by michaellandonsmommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult for me to think of me first. I am always wanting to make sure everyone has what they want and need and don't really think about myself. If I do something that is just for me, I feel I have to justify it somehow.
I am trying to change that just a little.
2007-11-16 04:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by Alright 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we are shooting out little spiteful "me"s all the time in place of being truly giving and then feeling we deserve our own time and taking it.
Basically it is the person who is passive-aggressively forcing their anger or will into situations that they look at as "taking care of everyone else first" that keeps people from using their "me" time correctly.
2007-11-16 04:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by parkdad73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a mother of course my daughter comes first. And also I feel selfish and horrible if I put myself first and I start think of what could have been done or bought, if I hadn't acted like a stupid snob(put myself first)
2007-11-16 05:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by Autumn S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is I end up feeling guilty for putting myself first which kind of sucks because no one else is putting me first so I need to.
2007-11-16 04:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Aurora 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, I always put other people before me and when I say I am not doing it no more i still do.
2007-11-16 04:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by honestspeaking 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is difficult because I want to be sure my husband is happy and that my job gets done correctly.
2007-11-16 04:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by sandwest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take care of me and my family the rest can wait.
2007-11-16 04:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by My♥Cherry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such is the life of a mother...
yeah. I haven't bought myself any desperately needed clothes for MONTHS...almost a year, actually.
2007-11-16 04:49:07 · answer #9 · answered by MamiZ-Notorious Faithful Freak 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It can be. It helps to remember that it is impossible to love others unless you first love yourself. Christians are told to love their neighbours 'as ourselves' not 'more than ourselves.'
2007-11-16 04:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋