When a relationship is not going well and you have tried all that you can to fix it - you have communicated your issues and they are not taken seriously. When you take a stand - then they make changes and put you on a guilt trip!!!
2007-11-16 03:47:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
They use guilt to make you do things THEIR way. You may just need to re-evaluate your relationship. This negetive person is pulling you down and you seem stronger than that.
2007-11-16 04:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by 'Old & Cudley' 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea why people feel the need to put others on a guilt trip, but it really p!sses me off! It makes me want to smack them upside the head with the bags I just packed for that "Trip."
Good Luck
2007-11-16 03:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by Angel of Death says F-IT! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You call it guilt trip I call it a con game. They will do whatever they can to con you into changing your mind and when you do they go back to their old selves. Don't fall for it.
2007-11-16 03:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by Thumper 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because some people like to think they can "control" you, it's a power trip thing with them
2007-11-16 03:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can relate, I broke up with my boyfriend because it just isnt working for me, he didnt want to, so he's trying to make me feel bad about it. I have to stand my ground, better now than months or years from now, right?
2007-11-16 03:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by summergirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one should have to change anything for someone other than themselves. Ever heard of unconditional love. You should focus on the positives and not the negatives.
2007-11-16 03:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by lionchef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stand your ground when you know you have done everything you can. They try to change your mind because they want things to go their way. GOOD LUCK!!
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2007-11-16 03:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by D TRAIN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they know what they are about to lose or have lost once you took that stand. be strong, don't buy into it. my biggest problem with my relationship is i let him get away with everything and make me feel like crap for just going to the store.
2007-11-16 03:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by MissayQ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my own experience - Those people are jealous, don't like others to come up in life, ego type people, etc. Better not to share ideas or story to them and keep far from them for better not to fight.
2007-11-16 03:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a relationship is compromise...no need to guilt trip someone
2007-11-16 03:50:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lefty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋