I am having issues.
2007-11-16 02:40:56 · 27 answers · asked by orange c 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes, I do. If you cannot see value and worth in your own person, how would you reasonably expect anyone else to?
And plus - when a person has a nice, healthy self-respect, they simply won't put up with any crap. Essential in a good relationship!
2007-11-16 02:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No but it helps. But I think it can go too far.
If you love yourself too much then how can you love someone else more? Love means wanting to compromise, wanting to think of someone else besides yourself, and willing to give up some things in order to be with another person.
2007-11-16 03:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Unsub29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have to love and believe in yourself. This is infectious and others feel it. This is when others love you. If you do not love yourself, you are negative about yourself and you bring everyone around you down. No one wants to be around you. You think more of yourself and love yourself, people will love to be around you.
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2007-11-16 02:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by D TRAIN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What self? (Sorry, buddhist humor)
you have to be good to another for them to love you, in a healthy relationship of course. But it is impossible to make someone love you. There is the problem of free will and different priorities. No two people, soulmates or not, will want the exact same things.
2007-11-16 02:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course, if you don't love yourself you will think that nobody else will. So, yes love yourself as much as you want somebody to love you. I did and I have a wonderful huband that loves me as much as I love myself.
2007-11-16 02:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by Me, Myself & I 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Some days I really don't like who I am...and there was a period in my life that I hated myself so much I didn't want to live anymore. But I had tons of people loving me. So no I don't believe that at all.
2007-11-16 02:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by aerofrce1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! If you don't love and respect yourself, you tend to attract people that will use & abuse you. Then you feel as if you don't deserve any better, don't try to do any better, eventually the user gets all they can from you, leaves you, and the cycle repeats.
2007-11-16 02:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, changes should come first with yourself before someone appreciate it...:)
2007-11-16 02:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by 黒いサファイア/Black Sapphire 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that would be what you might think but sometimes someone has to love you for you to be able to learn to love yourself.it's how a person comes off to you what i mean is how loving a person is towards you.
2007-11-16 02:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by jeannieboop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course, if you dont love yourself, you could be bringing issues into your relationship,that ultimately will make him unhappy, and you unhappier with yourself. good luck!
2007-11-16 02:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by just in case 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋