i have been trying to get pregnant for months and nothing...help plz...blkbeautygrl07?

Answer 1

It is considered normal for a healthy couple to take one year to conceive. There is only a 25% chance in each cycle that you will conceive and that is only if everything was perfect.

Read the book: Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler. The book explains your cycle, charting and how to get pregnant. Check out the website: http://www.fertilityfriend.com/ Buy a basal thermometer at the drug store. You need to start charting your waking temperature so that you can get an accurate picture of what is happening in your cycles. This information can aid you in having sex at the correct time as well as providing your doctors with information that can lead them to figuring out what the problem is if there is a problem.

Some other tips:
-When having baby sex, do not use lube (KY Jelly, astroglide, etc) it renders sperm immobile. If you want to use lube, use preseed. (Preseed promotes a sperm friendly atmosphere. You insert it 10 minutes prior to having sex.) http://www.preseed.com/
-Do not douche or use scented tampons. They alter the acidity of the vagina.
-Do not have oral sex when you are having baby sex. Saliva can kill sperm.
-Have sex in the missionary position. This allows for the deepest penetration and will deposit the sperm closest to the cervix.
-After sex, stay laying down with your pelvis slightly elevated/tilted for 15 minutes.

Answer 2

How many months? Its normal for a healthy couple to take a year or better. YOu're only fertile for 24 hours every cycle- so if you have a cycle thats 28 days thats one day a month. But generally women have longer cycles- so you're fertile less often.

Just relax, stop trying to make it happen and just have sex. Once the pressure is completely off and its no longer the focus of your life it'll happen super fast.

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