my husband went to work out of town, him and the guys went to the strip club, wich i think is no big deal. until he tells me how he has the smell of **** in his mouth and down his throat all day from the nite before thats why he didnt call home because he was busy sucking **** all nite. last week i got all ready to go out he came home at 1 am drunk and said he knows he isnt a good husband for me and that i can file for a divorce if i want to. so what do you think???? does he want a divorce and isnt man enough to just say so or what???
2007-11-16 01:42:05 · 7 answers · asked by tristy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wait until he sobber up and ask him about what he said when he was drunk. If he still feel this way, its up to you. Do you think this is a one time thing or will it be an on going thing when he goes out at night. What will you put up with, how much to you value your marriage with your husband. Can you deal with this kind of behavoir in your marriage? This is your call, Lady.
2007-11-16 01:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be wanting a divorce...and is trying to find ways to make you upset so that you will file....Talk to him and ask him straight up if divorce is what he wants...
I know that I would not tolerate any of this out of my husband...
2007-11-16 01:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!! He is putting this off on you and basically saying that he does not care one way or the other...that he will continue to act like a frat boy whether you like it or not and you have to ask yourself if you are willing to put up with that behavior. I would hope not..you deserve better...and if he is not willing to change his ways then you have to make a choice...
2007-11-16 01:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Jack Sparrow ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that would be disturbing to me. Maybe he has done something wrong but has yet to admit it, but is letting you free if you so choose. Find out what is really going on with him.
2007-11-16 01:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by Cassandra C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy wants out of this marriage, and what he is doing to you is wrong he should not be dong these things and telling you about them, he is rubbing your face in it, it is very hard to get someone to change who acts like that, and you do not and should not live in a marriage like this one, what he is doing is insulting to you
2007-11-16 03:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by George 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll need to talk to him about that...but whether he wants it or not, the key is what do YOU want? If you want to split up then work toward that...if not, then see if y'all can work things out.
2007-11-16 01:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES!
2007-11-16 02:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋