During a courtship, one of the most important part is to feel comfortable with each other. I guess no one wants to go into relationship to engage in endless fights, its tiring.
In stead of trying to resolve the problems and insecurities by means of harsh words or interrogation, why not take active steps to nurture the relationship?
Negative actions can only damage a relationship and once hurts are done and limit of tolerance and patience is reached, it is too late to regret.
I have many female friends with failed relationship and by then they are in the 30s and sometimes left me wondering, if the initial selection of a right bf is fundamentally wrong or during the process of waiting for a better guy, their expectation is too high.
Good looks can be deceiving but personality cannot lie for long.
2007-11-15 22:21:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
That is all so true.You seem wise beyond your years:)
2007-11-15 22:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by Purple Dawn 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For 50 yrs my mom would fight with my father about the same things over and over again. She always acted in an emotional level but never considered an intellectual one. My sisters & I decided to be different. We pretty much will say something like, "We've got a problem. Lets sit down and talk & see if we can't come up with a solution we're both happy with."
However, I disagree with your stmt that the most important thing in a relationship is to feel comfortable with someone. I feel comfortable with my best friends but I wouldn't want to marry them.
I believe that love and respect for each other are the most important traits in a courtship and marriage. The rest will follow. I don't think just being comfortable with someone is enough reason to move toward marriage.
2007-11-15 22:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for a good kind man, looks are superficial. what if he
is good looking and does not treat you right?
feeling comfortable with each other, yes, taking steps to
nurture the relationship, correct, wait for the right man
do not rush.
its better to be single and happy than married and miserable.
men in their 50,s meeting each other for the first time ask each
other or you married or happy? good luck.
2007-11-15 22:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are only skin deep. To have a great relationship, you must be compatable and most important be able to communicate with one another. Starting a relationship that all you do is fight is a good sign it will not ever work.
2007-11-15 22:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-24 08:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
False
2007-11-15 22:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
true. It should only take about a year of dating to know whether someone is the right person for you or not, so if you marry them after that long knowing that they're not the right person for you, you're headed for trouble.
2007-11-16 02:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everything you wrote. If you cannot communicate the relationship is doomed from the beginning. And basing a relationship purely on looks is shallow and immature.
2007-11-15 22:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by Jinxyblue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
True
2007-11-15 22:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50/50!
2007-11-15 22:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by Nasren7585 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋