im pregnant and to young to have a baby.. and cant get an abortion...what do i do??

Question

i cant tell my mom or she will kick me out and iv been pregnant for about two week

Answer 1

Well you knew beforehand that if you got pregnant that your mom would kick you out of the house and you still did not go to the health department and get on FREE birth control?

Go to http://www.abortion.com then click on your state then a clinic.
http://www.adoption.com

If you can't get an abortion or consider adoption then your going to have to tell your mom and deal with whatever she says but how can you blame her for whatever she says after all your the one who got pregnant, she had no part in that so don't expect everyone else to help you.

Answer 2

Oh honey, this must be so scary for you.
I'm afraid that I can't give you any miracle answers. The simple fact is that if you are pregnant, there are three options. You can get an abortion, you can have the baby and give it up for adoption, or you can have the baby and try to keep it.
You don't say how old you are. Depending on that and what state you are in, you may need to have your parents permission to get an abortion, or have a judge waive that for you.
I would bet that your mother won't actually kick you out. Parents say a lot of things to try and keep their kids from doing what they don't want them to do, but when push comes to shove, they /love/ their children and will overcome what they said before to support and care for you. So don't be too sure that your mother will kick you out. However, if you really are sure that she would react this way, please, go to an adult you trust. A teacher, a minister, a school counsellor, aunt, uncle, parent of a friend. Even the Planned Parenthood clinic. Talk to them to learn about your options where you are and maybe get someone to come with you when you tell your mom.
I'm so sorry that you have to go through this extremely difficult time. I hope you can seek out someone else to talk to you, so that you don't have to go through this alone. I've attached a link to the source that I found that goes to a website for teenage girls who are pregnant, who choose any of the three above options, without any blame or shame. It might be a good place for you to find someone to talk to.

Answer 3

First, if you're still a teenager, your mom doesn't have the privilege of kicking you out (which almost always is just a threat they make to keep you from getting pregnant, not something they really do if you actually do get pregnant).

Second, you're obviously not "too young to have a baby," since there you are having one.

Don't do anything on your own without finding out all of your options and thinking them through. Where is the father in all of this? You didn't get pregnant on your own. Face the music and tell your mom. Then get both families together to hash out what to do next.

This isn't going to just go away no matter what you do. Don't try to go through it alone, for your sake and the baby's.

Answer 4

I am 18 and pregnant..And this isn't some thing i'd recomend..Do u have a steady earnings? Ur possess situation? A consistent partner? Can u provide this youngster the high-quality life reguardless on ur age? 18 is not that dangerous u are at the least an grownup however except u answered sure to all those questions i wouldn't do it..A youngster is a significant responsibilty..Don't plan for one until ur utterly ready to have a loved ones...And its no handy strategy to get pregnant u have a 25% to get pregnant on ur most fertile days each month throughout ur ovulation time..It takes some couples a yr or more to concieve

Answer 5

This is what you get for having sex at a young age before your married. God obviously wanted you to have the child so be happy and get a job to raise your son or daughter. God will provide for you and your child. I am a teen mother(I have a 2 year old son) and work 12 hours a day 6 days a week to support my son. I go to school half a day from Monday to Friday and take my son to work with me and school because I can't afford a babysitter. I've been living on my own since 15 and my son's father split when I was 2 months pregnant. If your parents will support you and you get a job and you make your son's or daughter's father take care of the child as well then you can do a good job raising your child and still go to college and graduate high school.

Answer 6

The advice to go to Planned Parenthood is good advice. Why would your mother kick you out? Where do you live? In Ohio it is not legal to throw a minor out of their house. If you don't want the baby I would give it up for adoption. There are a lot of people out there that cannot have any children and would love to have yours. There is nothing wrong with giving your baby up. If that is what is best for you than that is what is best for the baby also. They can tell you about this at Planned Parenthood also. Have you told the baby's dad yet? I think that I would tell him first and see if he will go with you to tell your mom. Good luck.

Answer 7

You need to tell your mom. She loves you and she will not kick you out. You need to let her know so you can have some support and think long and hard on what you want to do.There is Always adoption. Its scary when you find out your pregnant. You can go to Plan Parenthood. They have a lot of option. and they can help you in what ever road you think is right for you and your baby. Don't let any one talk you into doing anything you don't want to. Good luck. I hope ever thing works out for you.

Answer 8

tell your mother and i am sure at first she will be disappointed,but later be excited. you will be okay.. i had plenty of friends that had children at a very young age and yes they struggled, but they say it was the best thing that happen to them. if you plan on having an abortion, please think very hard about the consequences and how they will effect you psychologically for the rest of your life. you don't want to do something you regret, but if you are strong enough, which some people are, then do what is in your heart. just pray and whatever your decision, things will become much clearer for you with time.

Answer 9

If you are too young to have a baby you are also too young for your mom to kick you out legally. The first thing to do is tell your mom. She might not be too happy but you probably will be surprised to fing her willing to help and to listen. (after the initial shock wears off). Your obvious lack of communication could have played a big part in your present situation.. If you really, really can't tell mom, go to another adult. (Teacher, councelor, aunt, grandma) But you MUST tell someone soon. Best of luck.

Answer 10

If you cant get an abortion your going to have to tell your mother. It will come out eventually when you start to show. And if she notices you have not gotten your cycle in months. You can place the baby for adoption if you don’t want to parent but you cant sign your rights away till after the baby is born.