2007-11-15 16:09:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you’re experiencing pain during sex there may be several factors that are contributing to the pain you feel and I would definitely recommend that you tell your partner that it hurts.
There are a number of physical conditions that may make sex hurt, including:
* Pelvic Inflammatory Disease
* Endometriosis
* Ovarian cysts
* Interstitial cystitis
* Vaginismus
* Vulvodynia
* Some sexually transmitted diseases
* Urinary infections
* Vaginal dryness
* Physical injury and chronic pain
Having sex should be pleasurable if it's not, tell your partner that you are experiencing pain or discomfort, and see your doctor/gyneacologist for diagnosis and treatment.
Good luck :)
2007-11-15 19:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A good part of a guys enjoyment is giving a girl pleasure.
It will upset him a bit if he realizes he has been hurting you for a while. You need to give him the message about the pain, but not that you are trying to deny having relations with him.
There are other ways to give and receive pleasure. As has been suggested, a different position might help, more lube, more foreplay, different condoms.
You should also visit your gyno and tell him what is going on. You may have something as simple as a tender spot, or a tipped uterus which he hits.
2007-11-15 17:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by Grumpy Mac 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suggest a new position, it not only alleviates the discomfort but it may make him think that you want to be more adventurous
2007-11-15 16:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by peacefrog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you must. You must tell him to change positions even if it hurts a bit, otherwise you will not enjoy.
2007-11-15 18:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not ! Stop your crying ; you must be a whiney li'l girl who can't perform or deliver for your man in bed. Can't ya handle the "larger man" ? Once a man penetrates you you're down for the count & to give him pleasure ! Quit being so selfish & instead focus on him ; he needs to release his semen into you. Feel fortunate you have attracted a man & stop your groaning.
2007-11-15 22:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Definitely, there is no reason for you to suffer. Stop take a rest, try different position or whatever it takes.
2007-11-15 16:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by K K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Sex is for YOUR enjoyment too. If it hurts, he should know. If you let him know and he wants to keep going, then you know he's not the right guy.
2007-11-15 16:16:44 · answer #7 · answered by xo379 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well id usually do tell him to ..but since he is my man for over 5 years, it wouldnt be fair if hes REALLLY into it and all of a sudden i ruin it by sayin STOP get off..ruins his moment
2007-11-15 16:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by Justin's Mommy 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
are you kidding? of course u need to tell him. just say something like not so deep baby
2007-11-15 16:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes.. he would notice if you don't feel well... try other position. if that doen'st work.. just settle for oral in the meantime.
2007-11-15 16:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋