2007-11-15 14:51:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I told her that he was cheating. She's devastated, but I've been in the same position and I'd want to know. She's grateful that I told her. It came down to betraying one friend or loosing two. I'd rather be a snitch than a traitor any day.
2007-11-15 15:05:05 · update #1
That's tough. I would tell the friend who cheated that he/she has to spill the beans to their partner before i do.
2007-11-15 14:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to the one cheating and tell them what you know and ask what they think you should do now that you are in the middle of it. If they ask you not to tell, why would you want to be associated with someone that isn't concerned about putting you in an uncomfortable situation? If they say, this is wrong, I will take care of it so you aren't pulled into it - either way the problem is solved. Good luck
2007-11-15 14:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are both close friends, well I'd stay out of it. But I'd definitely tell the cheater to tell their partner or just break off the relationship.
People can get dangerous when they found out you cheated on them.
2007-11-15 14:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can but be careful it doesn't blow up in your face. I told my best friend her fiance was up to something with her supposed new other best friend even though I saw him groping her in the garage and she thought I was jealous. Then when I said I wasn't but it is what I saw and my eyes weren't lying she asked her to which she denied then asked her fiance and he got very violent. Need I say more as if he did nothing it shouldn't have upset him. But now I say nothing and she ended up finding out the hard way by catching them. She realised I was trying to be a true friend and couldn't believe the other girl had done it. But she said she had to take his word for it. They are actually married now and he hasn't changed his ways as he often visits strip clubs and stuff. Oh well each to their own but I would probably stay out of it.
2007-11-15 14:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kym M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buddies women and adult adult males have a code that no rely what they shouldn't cheat and or bypass after the buddy's ex WHY WHY WHY could you desire to play around alongside with your buddy's ex? there are various of others accessible the date play around with WHY the buddy's ex? how are you able to look your buddy in the face understanding your after or is play around with him or her ex, how are you able to call your self a buddy And that's no longer proper whether the buddy says "confident i do no longer ideas you relationship ?" you nevertheless shouldn't in view that's TO ME is lowdown and backstabbing i could precise away ask your self replaced into this person ever my buddy whether we had the better of friendship i could sense that"friendship" the full time replaced right into a lie or perhaps theory i could by no ability combat over a guy i could resent my so referred to as buddy deep down i could resent her and could desire the tables are became for her to get a flavor of what it feels like it could even reason me to by no ability returned have close buddies, it could reason me to be stand offish with different women and as quickly as I also have a sparkling boyfriend i could no longer want the two to fulfill because of fact NOW i won't be able to have confidence that they gained't play around and that i hate it because of fact meaning i'm now insecure which i do unlike being buddies are assume to have each and every others back no longer stab the different inthe back
2016-12-16 10:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most Definitely YES! Would you not want your close Friend to tell you if your lover was cheating on you?
2007-11-15 14:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Tigger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a duty because a cheater deserves no help keeping their cheating a secret. I would want a friend to tell me.
2007-11-15 14:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would, ask her[or him?] not to tell him[or her?]
cause if one finds out u knew and didn't tell 'em
or if the other finds out u did tell them youre in trouble
so find out which you are willing to lose ......
well i doubt they'll stay mad for ever
its simply be bad for a little bit of time then make up
in most cases that is
2007-11-15 14:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by xXx_lostNlife_xXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always difficult to be caught in the middle of two friends in this way, but, yes, you should tell them, providing you are certain of your facts.
2007-11-15 14:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by concerned neighbor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude omg.....
that happend to me
and i didnt tell him
because the girl said she
wouldnt be my friend or the boy
it was both of them
and so my other freind
didnt know untill i told him
like end of school when it happend 7 months
before.
i think u should....
2007-11-15 14:55:25 · answer #10 · answered by princesslineth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋