I started dating my boyfriend michael in september of last year. (one year now) i'm 16 years of age, as to him. don't say i'm not inlove. because i definatly know i am. well around march we had broke up because he thought i didn't even care his exact words where "all my other g/f's broke up with me. i thought it was going to happen with us so i didn't care to keep it going and once i saw you so hurt i knew you did care." about a month after we broke up he asked me back out. over that time we had talked on occasion and i was trying to get over him. well we ended going back out again and after that everything was differend. i knew it would be but its just crazy. he is way over protective and in school i can't even look away from him. he icolated me from all my friends and don't trust me at all. i am scared. i'm tired of fighting. i do love him. i don't want to be with him and be beat anymore. but i still want him. people say i'm stupid and i know i am. but love is like that
right?
2007-11-15 14:14:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Run away from this mess as fast as you can..don't be a statistic
2007-11-15 14:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by wilma s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your parents and the school if you two go to school together that he hurts you and then you should break up with him. Chances are you may have to swear out an emergency protective order in case he tries to hurt you. Look around you, read the paper, go online girls die all the time because they had an abusive boyfriend who isolated them among other things. You don't want to end up hurt and maybe he wouldn't do that but the thing is you just don't really know right? The girls that died from the hands of possessive boyfriends would have swore their ex wouldn't do such a thing but it is happening all the time. Please talk to your parents or your teachers, someone who is close to you and can help you. Please be careful!
2007-11-15 22:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by Kellie~Baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl stop being so stupid. This guy is denying you your rights. This is also criminal behaviour if he is physically hurting you. Don't even try to make excuses for yourself by trying to justify this illegal behaviour. Victims always try to add reason for what is happening to them in your case is that you love him. Well guess what hun if someone loved you they wouldn't beat you and deny you seeing your friends. This is not love this is abuse and should be dealt with immediately.
First end it with him. I know you might be scared but it has to be done. If he doesn't get the message tell people about it. Tell a school counsellor or your parents. It will be hard to do but it must be done.
2007-11-15 22:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by Johny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl, love isn't like that. He says it's love I'm sure. Guys like that are "really sorry" afterwards and hit again. They hurt emotionally and ware you down. Not for you. If you're strong enough to let him go, you won't regret it and if your worried about his suffering and his happiness, rest assured that kind of guy will find another to be with and will eventually leave you alone. He stays attached to you playing on your sympathy because he hasn't yet found the next fool who will live like that and it's easier to hope you let him continue in his comfort zone. He'll be alright, let him completely go and forgive him. Do not give him any more "chances" . Been there, done that.
Busterbuns
2007-11-15 22:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by busterbuns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO love is not like that, dependence is. You need to tell someone alive, not internet, There is no excuse for his behavior, NONE, there are 800 numbers in every phone book, and in every school office. Go to your academic counselor, do something now, before it is too late. You are a wonderful person who deserves to be loved without pain or terror. It will be the best and hardest thing you will do this year but do it NOW
2007-11-15 22:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by Agilaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
re: but love is like that right?
.......wrong!
That isn't love ---- it's desperate need no matter how badly you are treated. Were you raised by abusive, mean parents?
You should get some counseling and at very least look into self esteem and start raising your low self worth soon.
2007-11-15 22:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops talk to your parents and move on you will end-up dead like tons of girls with weirdos bf
2007-11-15 22:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by xoxoxo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY YOUNG WOMAN ARE KILLED EACH YEAR CONCERNING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE? YOU SY YOURSELF HE IS ABUSIVE. YOU NEED TO TALK TO AN ADULT AND GET SOME HELP BEFORE SOMETHING HORRIBLE HAPPENS. DONT RISK YOUR LIFE OR THE LIVES OF OTHERS....GET HELP.
2007-11-15 22:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by shebae 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you, he wouldn't do this to you. Dump him and go seek some therapy.
2007-11-15 22:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋