My husband and I have been married for 3 years but together for 8 years. We have a wonderful son that is almost 2. It all changed before I found out I wasa pregnant. I just don't want to fall out of love with him but I feel like I have tried everything to patch up our marriage and he doesn't seem to be the same person I fell in love with.....please someone help......I have tried romantic dinners, dates, the whole nine yards!!! Please help.
2007-11-15 14:14:12 · 10 answers · asked by rebel_girl917 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am in the same boat your in....there was not an ounce of romance or spice on our anniversary....i have no clue what to do..We have been married 5 years and have 2 boys 3 years old and 10 months old....Most people i have talked to say this is part of a marriage others say get counseling....Try going to the extreme wear a bra and thong to bed grab his hand and put it on your intimate areas, touch him play with him, jump into the shower with him in the morning hell why not just jump him at night!!
2007-11-15 15:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 8 years together and a child, you dont do romantic dinners to spice up a marriage, you become the ultimate slut to spice things up, the question will be, if youre to uptight???
2007-11-15 14:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by suehellen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surprise him with a nitie and then put some candles on and slow music then call him up to the room and have freeze pop waiting and let me tell you he will dieeeeeeeeeee just go down on him and he will love you forever my man loves it i tried it one day something diiferent he says its the best thing he ever experienced before he said the coldness feels so good.
2007-11-15 17:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you comparing him to others such as actors, actresses, musicians, artists, etc...Do you often praise him for his work and efforts or compare him?? Dress sexy for him for an at home lunch or dinner. Like a seductive, fluid sheer gown for his imagination and your spicy sex life..oooh laa laa!!
2007-11-15 14:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by Hello Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boo....maybe it isnt u... he might be the problem. If he's not abosorbing your tactics u might have to open your eyes to reality. ive been with mine 16, the love never died, neither does the action. He gotta get on his game and so do u..get some toys. it helps.
2007-11-15 14:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by Best Mom!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it is over.........It is not up to you to keep things together....It takes two.....Move on before you waste more of your time. I feel for you it is tuff
2007-11-15 14:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by wilma s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-11-15 14:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spice up the sex. I had to do it. Got to keep them happy to keep them.
2007-11-15 14:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by specialsuber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the kid
2007-11-15 14:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by junior2791 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
anal
2007-11-15 14:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by John C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋